Unfortunately, lemmy.ml is run by lemmy's actual developers and will likely remain one of the most popular instances. Best thing to do is block the instance and host new communities on other instances.

Yeah, I've been eyeing kbin/mbin for a bit, which can actually federate with lemmy.

Otep's Kult 45

https://tidal.com/browse/album/92319535

She also has Smash The Control Machine and a bunch of others.