Supremely frustrated as of late of flakey people who make plans which fall through and considering setting a boundary around that or just not doing the labor to keep them in my life. Not sure what I wish to do at this point, to be honest, and need to think on it. With that being said, I'm otherwise doing well, on the last few days of antibiotics to recover from strep. Just a few weeks out from getting the peripheral nerve stimulator put back in, assuming they don't blow an IV or two again, so hoping that goes well and doesn't get infected again.
You don't deserve to have people who constantly flake out. If they are always cancelling and never initiating activities, invest the time and energy into your own well-being, hobbies, and other friendships. Best of luck with what sounds like some health challenges!
Yeah I know I typically cut people like this out of my life but knowing when it's a pattern and not just bad luck and life being busy right now is kinda where things are at right now. I'm hoping it's the latter but I'm leaning towards the former and I think I'm going to assert a boundary next time we plan something
Supremely frustrated as of late of flakey people who make plans which fall through and considering setting a boundary around that or just not doing the labor to keep them in my life. Not sure what I wish to do at this point, to be honest, and need to think on it. With that being said, I'm otherwise doing well, on the last few days of antibiotics to recover from strep. Just a few weeks out from getting the peripheral nerve stimulator put back in, assuming they don't blow an IV or two again, so hoping that goes well and doesn't get infected again.
You don't deserve to have people who constantly flake out. If they are always cancelling and never initiating activities, invest the time and energy into your own well-being, hobbies, and other friendships. Best of luck with what sounds like some health challenges!
Yeah I know I typically cut people like this out of my life but knowing when it's a pattern and not just bad luck and life being busy right now is kinda where things are at right now. I'm hoping it's the latter but I'm leaning towards the former and I think I'm going to assert a boundary next time we plan something
Best of luck!