What is a secret that you will never tell anyone in the real world?

Lanky_Pomegranate530@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world – 81 points –
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I’m certain that I am some degree of polyamorous. But I’m in a 10-year monogamous relationship and feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place

Might not be to late me and my wife of 12 years are starting talks of this.

If you don’t mind, how did you two even start that conversation? I’m afraid to bring it up because I know the knee-jerk reaction will probably be a lot of hurt feelings and misunderstandings

She brought it up first. Key thing is being open and honest and setting clear boundaries that both people need to follow. Trust is the biggest thing to keeping things good.