What did "that one" person do to you which made you cut them out of your life?

Rusty@lemm.ee to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world – 170 points –

Or, alternatively, what did you do to another person which got you blacklisted from their life?

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Long time friend turned out to be a sexist pos that was groping my female friends, but would only act this way when I had my back turned. I'm very glad my friends trust me enough to actually tell me what was happening. Am perfectly fine cutting that behaviour out of my life and my social circle.

This is so so so common. I guess we don't call people out for it more because we don't want to rock the boat with friend groups? Ass pats, leg squeezes, hugs that last a few seconds too long, ...

Am perfectly fine cutting that behaviour out of my life and my social circle.

This sentence feels so performative and cringey, and yet it still must be said aloud because even my ex-friend to this day defends a similarly shitty guy with a well-documented pattern of abuse.

Am perfectly fine cutting that behaviour out of my life and my social circle.

This sentence feels so performative and cringey, and yet it still must be said aloud because even my ex-friend still defends a similarly shitty guy with a well-documented pattern of abuse.