Droggelbecher

@Droggelbecher@lemmy.world
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Do you never use shampoo? I personally only even wet my hair once or twice a week, then wash with shampoo though.

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I've tried cowashing before! I have a lot of hair, but thin individual strands, and it kinda made it too hydrated (idk how else to explain) so I lost my waves.

Power over another person, the prerequisite for most sexual violence, doesn't have to come from superior physical strength. It could come from an age difference, a professor-student or boss-employee dynamic, or some form of blackmail, for example. And the body can experience physical arousal in response to the right stimuli even when you don't want to have sex. You can also do acts of sexual violence that do not require an erect penis.

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Nah, it's extra hard when your partner looks all cosy cuddly adorable eepy sleepy under their lil blankie und you just want to cuddle up

Because languages aren't constructed, they 'evolved' naturally from humans communicating with one another for many generations. As such, they aren't intended to be as simple as possible. They aren't intended in the first place. They've grown over time with no regard for whether the rules makes sense because nobody designed those rules, they just happened.

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Mostly things that fall under the category of women not being able to be a threat/dangerous. Especially white women, which im usually read as.

This includes everything from talking to children in public to actual minor crimes like shoplifting.

ETA: this is in fact a prime example of how sexism is mean to everyone. Women are not dangerous because they're weak, men are dangerous because they're strong. Neither is generally true.

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I kept reading and hearing this and since it doesn't happen to me I thought something was wrong with me. So I'd like to add that according to my gyn it's also perfectly normal to not have this happen!

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It can also happen after you consent to SOME intimate acts, but not others, and the other person can take you by surprise. (That one has happened to me, im not male though)

My professors in undergrad were all like this and they'd use the breaks to chat to you about dark souls or home gardening or whatever and then they'd make an exam that'd have an 80% failure rate

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I scrolled through this https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/PDA and I think pathological demand avoidance means geht be it?

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I thought this was a discussion about languages people speak.

Esperanto is an interesting case though but it wasn't designed to be as simple as a language can be (since that is highly subjective). It was designed to have as many similarities as possible to major European language in order to make it easier for speakers of those European languages to learn.

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The person intently listening to what another person is doing on the toilet is calling the person who's minding their (pun intended) business in what they think is private a psychopath. Nice.

People mean different things when they say maths. To most, maths means calculating things using numbers. Engineering absolutely has more of that than physics. But there's so much more maths out there than the average person even knows about, like your example. Physics has more higher mathematics, and engineering has more calculating stuff using numbers.

To add: drink water throughout the day in general. Especially where tap water is safe to drink. You're going to pass up the opportunity to improve your health and daily wellbeing, easily and for free? WHY?

Random side note. I actually prefer room temperature water. Sensitive teeth. And i try to keep my backpack as light, so it's a one layer water bottle for me.

I fucking love not smelling like anything. Might be my autism and adhd. I'm elated when I find deodorant, body soap and hair soap that barely has a smell, or at least a smell that vanishes quickly.

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Both tbh

Not necessarily INHERENT deficiency. Providing exception for someone who grew up oppressed, poor, abused etc can help level the playing fields and doesn't imply that the oppressed etc person has any inherent deficiencies. Just that they've had it harder so far and maybe we should cut them some slack for that.

I had to learn Fortran for my thesis because it's the industry standard in particle physics

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Humans aren't the only species that have a right to the planet's resources.

For me it'd go

go back in time invent calculus or something similar be burned at the stake for being a woman who writes weird symbols

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Haven't you got the memo? You shouldn't be criticizing anyone when the alternative is way worse. Don't you know not being as bad basically makes you perfect?

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Im one of those weirdos that carries a cross body bag full of stuff everywhere. Here's what's in it: bag contents The pills are my prescription plus paracetamol. The tube thingy is 50spf sunscreen. There should be a pocket knife but I lost it and haven't gotten around to getting a new one yet.

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On average it seems big pant is younger zoomers and big jakt is older zoomers and younger millennials

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I'm a female-passing (afab agender but that's beside the point) physicist. I do this when men (honest to god it's always been men so far) explain something to me that i obviously know better. Like for example they'll know I'm a physicist but explain to me that water boils at a lower temperature in the mountains or something like that. I'll just play a game to see just how dumb i can get them to think i am. Pretty dumb is usually the answer.

I get irritated to an irrationally high degree when someone literally only reads the headline and decides right then what their opinion is and that it needs to be shared with the world. Like they wouldn't even have had to check out the link, it's right in the post.

Lots of people have to work 40+ hours just to survive, that doesn't leave much energy to do things other than your paid job. And you can't just switch jobs willy nilly, pretty soon nobody would hire you anymore if your cv is full of jobs you've only held for a few weeks or months

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Because that's not true

If sign language is your first language, any written language is like a foreign language that you might've learned but aren't a native speaker in.

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You can get help setting everything up, but you have to be the one to push the button, pick up the lethal medicine, etc

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How are you, OP?

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If you had access to good public transport you could take a train for those 30 miles and relax, work or read instead of wasting time being focused on traffic. But if there's too much supply of roads built for the purpose of everyone driving their car everywhere, there won't be much demand to build something like that.

Biking and walking can then be for mid and short distances, respectively. But both will be dangerous unless there's proper infrastructure for that. And again, not happening until they stop the over supply of roads.

And for hauling the dry wall, yes, use a car. Imagine how much nicer traffic and parking will be if most commuters who aren't transporting big loads aren't in private vehicles.

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Think about dairy what you will, but 'I didn't do it, I paid someone else to do it' is never a very solid argument in a debate on ethics.

They can be helpful if you view them light heartedly as anonymous support groups where you can vent real quick. Not as actual qualified resources.

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Either two or four. The two holes are kinda in the middle then if it's four holes it's those same two plus two more closer to the edge

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They'd smile upon you if they saw how relatively easily you can access such an abundance of food

The funniest part to me is how 'this month' is absolutely meaningless. It was over 65 years ago last month too, and the month before that

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In my area we always designate a few people to stay between protesters and police and carry a phone for filming police. Sometimes, evidence of police behaviour is important. But a cam corder could work too.

Not that whatever the British hunters do isn't worse. But putting the same animal through that tremendous stress just for the fun of it isn't exactly what I'd describe as humane either.

They didn't though? The meme says they both kill the poor, which is just true

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Find out if there's a legal aid hotline for your area, a charity one if you can. Write the phone number on your arm so you don't have to take your phone. If you get arrested, use your call on it (if you get one).