I have most of my bases covered with mid-tier private trackers. For books/audiobooks I use MAM, movies BLU, Shows MTV, and RED for music. I still subscribe to Spotify though so only go to RED for the rare artist (my music taste isn't super esoteric) that doesn't have their music on Spotify
I'm in a similar boat. Was a big lurker on Reddit for a decade and finally made the switch once Apollo went down. Really like the vibe of Lemmy so far!