Occasionally get rowdy with some light punching, has devolved into some wrestling until someone's hurt. Happens less as we have gotten older and we don't bounce up off the floor and shake it off like we used to. Hugs with other guys are limited to a friend's uncle and his husband.
Been 20 years since I left my entire family behind. Occasionally text my step sister and an uncle but that's it. No regrets at all. I barely have enough time for all the people I choose to have in my life now, certainly no time for all the petty white trash baggage that it still sounds like they all subject themselves to.