I guess I'm different. If you burn me enough to illicit disgust, I will remember that over all else and I only forgive if deserving. I've had to many people take advantage of me. I don't hold grudges, I identify if you are a positive or negative effect on my life and treat accordingly.
I graduated from this school. The last time I read about my hometown in national news was when the locals fought against renaming "Jap Rd.", arguing it was respectful and not at all racist. It's a miserable place with a lot of miserable people who think they're better than most.