bmoney

that is really fkn funny

i wasnt really familiar with her, but my wife likes her a lot.

just reading about all she did makes me sad I am so late to her music and story. def lost a true artist.

Rest in Power

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ya im kinda there with you

lemmy may be inconvenient or kinda weird imo, but who cares. reddit is lame with them shutting down RiF so fuck em, i could do with less CoNtEnT i guess.

plus it is kinda fun to figure it out. havent had something like this on the net in a while for myself. forgot that sometimes being a netizen is work

ya right

like i have no social media loyalty. reddit was a habit. a time waster. the only thing that sucks about moving away from reddit is im not sure how to find old posts and shit here but im sure either i or someone much smarter will figure it out. in the end, i just want more places to go on the net

maybe im old, but i wax nostalgic for the forum days. and this feels like it

whats really funny/sad to me is how mods get no real respect right now or maybe ever

like are some mods lame, sure, but its a super thankless job that i dont think gets enough cred and thats the part that i think has disappointed me the most. mods are super needed online, and its a shame some people cannot see that

totes agree on that ish

the dumb shit is what makes it feel like a community or friends getting together. if its not that its a college message board for assignments

its the little heart at the top of at least lemmy.world

ya i think that build up is important

really if you can just get enough people over here, that shit starts to really ball up

tho im also kinda into the small community thing, i would love to start recognizing UN like i did in older forum days

i maintain 1 dollar per drink with bars and coffee shops

thank you for sharing this. she was a very powerful presence. great rendition

ya that hype will die down too

im totally a filthy casual and get the dislike but if lemmy survives and thrives, it will be with the help of shitposters

not everything has to be serious

yo dawg wassup!

i have a question for anyone here, we gonna get a growing community set up? I'm a lazy stoner with an aversion to responsibility but i know some of you are not. do people here now grow? ive got a couple of plants but i love little micro grows and space buckets

do we just post that shit here you think?

[0] bout to change that tho

i dont know if it looks that much better to me but it looks about the same, which is good for me personally

im just happy its workin to some degree at all. im kinda psyched on my first day poking around here

ya im just figuring out all this but the fact i can still see and post on the beehaw instance makes lemmy.world the jammy on day one. people commenting and shit

i still dont really understand it but its social media and im feeding my addiction.

ya thats my problem too. at least an 1.5 hr drive one way to get to "shops" that are not ace hardware or safeway. i live in a town of about 2k up a steep mountain pass. i would love to ditch amazon but its really really hard to

i dunno man, what new shit do you want out of a space game?

if it works as advertised, 1000 planets and space combat/dog fighting seems dope to me

like, i played a lot of NMS, and there is practically nothing to do in that game. i wont hold my breath but it looks pretty sweet

bro its brutal in these streets

that sucks

No they're Chinese now

i say go for it

im noone but i think it sounds cool. more people doin more shit here is prolly a good thing

that is hilarious

its convenience

reddit has become too easy so people dont care i guess

i dunno man, its wild to me

dude i feel that. its just lame and hard to grip with

its like i wish almost that i didnt care

meh, not my favorite

i think in some ways the zuck, while lacking of morals, is a true believer of, like, living on the web

its insane the amount of money and time has been dumped into the meta verse. i think he would do more if he could justify it

oat milk is the jammy out of all the alt milks imo

the sludge has been dominating for a while, reddit hasnt been cool for a while imo, just a lot of habitual hanging out

i was honestly looking for a reason to leave. i dont care about deleting accounts but if i comment ill be here as long as i keep getting replies

sure, but some critiques make more sense than others

aay me too!

tho i dunno if i believe in middle age

i think youre young until your not ;)

LOL i feel that for sure

def has that fresh, non jaded vibe so that helps

with some of the kinks of lemmy i dont think im spending as much time as i was on reddit

but i am spending a decent amount and thats been awesome. i do think the more old school vibe is really effecting how i wanna connect here. its maybe less time but more quality

people have been really nice

im sure that will change at somepoint if our dreams become reality but its been a unique exp if nothing else.

unfortunately i do not

i live in a weed mecca (colorado) so im super lucky with our pretty lax laws. as a rec user im allowed, i believe either 6 or 12 total plants with only half in flower (and im pretty sure its 12 with 6 flowering) and med users get double that

but thats why the space bucket is so ill and why i started out that way

super stealth grows

stahhhp

assetto corsa competizione

or really any quality racing game. its almost like 50% of my enjoyment

well i still dont see disrespect or invalidation of they way you feel, unless defederation makes you question what is real around you, which i guess i assumed you didnt feel "crazy or insane" due to people disagreeing with you

and did you even read that thread? this is what you replied to that i saw

right? it wasn’t anywhere near a big deal or an insult to other instances it’s “we don’t have the resources to handle any possible bad actors from big instances with loose >registration requirements, so we’re defederating from them until we feel that we can handle it”

the correct response to this is “oh, okay; hope they figure it out such that they can federate with us again in the future”; people are blowing this out of proportion

how was that gaslighting or disrespectful to the way you felt about it. where am i being disrespectful, outside of disagreeing with you?

Edit: furthermore aren't you doin the same thing

a reply of yours further down

I don’t believe you to be honest. I haven’t seen any hostility towards beehaw admins, or any toxicity whatsoever on the fediverse at all, whether lemmy.world or otherwise. You claim that the only thing you see is people being extremely hostile. So where are they?

are you not, by your definition gaslighting them?

whoa dang man, didnt know they had somethin new out. love me some QOTSA

quote me

i never said that at all. i have done nothing but respect you and your feelings about this matter, while giving you my quite reasonable take

i know we dont have to agree, thats why were not in the walled garden right? i welcome opinions that are different than mine, but you also have to respect what im saying right?

which it certainly doesnt feel like your giving me any benefit of doubt or anything. just assume im just some jerk

bro, its not gaslighting

no one said youre not allowed to be upset, you just have to deal with it as the nature of this specific platform. it may suck but thats life.

just gotta interact with other communities, bring the vibes up in other communities and it will soon no longer matter

oh i thought cuz you were mad about their unlimited breaks that was a factor for you

sounds like the amount of breaks for them dont matter then, its just that they're stinky. which is fair. but you can get the breaks just the same if you wanted. maybe getting out for some fresh air would be good for you

truuu

ya thats the vibe ive always gotten too