Sorry my phone corrected meh to men. I am MTF and had bottom surgery about a month ago. I am still 2 months away from actually having being able to have sex. But I have noticed my sex drive has increase and I actually think about it now where as before surgery I really didn't care for sex or think much of it.

What physical therapy are you doing?

I had my surgery September 21st. So sadly I am actually unable to preform at the moment. But do I want. I wasn't expecting this. Funny I went way longer before surgery without sex so its not like I'm just frustrated because I can't.

Interesting our colors are different purple was the first one for me and orange is the last.

Oh the first few weeks was nothing but pain and pressure. But it gets better.

Well if they didn't I wouldn't have gotten then surgery.

Oh trust me I am at the point where the swelling has gone down and the sutures are all most gone and its amazing how normal it looks. In a year you wouldn't even know. I will say pictures on line are usually of people early on and is a little miss leading of how everything will look in the end.

^ this person gets it

Amazing. Take your time picking a name I picked a name because I was kind of forced to and now so many people know me by it I really can't change it without outing myself so I'm stuck with a name I don't really like.

Well if you have questions feel free to ask.

I got https://www.soulsource.com/collections/grs-vaginal-dilators/products/soul-source-grs-vaginal-dilators-large-set

Ummm what?

It is highly recommended you get hair removal. The surgeon you get with will have a recommendation for the exact location that needs hair removed from. That being said the Crane Center I went though will tell you if there is reasons you can't they can still preform the surgery, you will just have more chance of infection and well hair inside.

If you are in the US look into the Crane Center. They not only help you figure out what you can get but have payment plans.

This is the biggest aspect of being a transwomen that is just plain hard because unlike ciswomen we are not normally given our teenage years to experiment and learn. Most of use are adults that have to just go from not wearing make up to having normal make up routine. Because of this any mistake to us feels like a flag we are a trans.

Interesting.

This might be a odd awnser but idk why I started transitioning. I have always felt like a women even before I realized thing like gender and sexuality. Fun enough before starting hormones I was exclusively into women and then I started and became Bi. Now I'm marrying a man so what a rollercoaster. I will say I am just more comfortable with my self and other since transitioning.