My go-to distros are Pop os for better game and new hardware support, and Linux Mint if I'm wanting something a little more stable. Both have served me really well over the years.
I've been playing around with Siduction (basically Debian unstable) recently and that seems pretty decent if you want the latest and greatest.
And most importantly: as of recently I'm self-hosting Lemmy and Kbin instances for myself to try them out! Kbin was a pain to setup, but I seem to be liking it more.
It's all running on two Ryzen R7 1700 systems with 64GB of RAM in one and 48GB in the other (long story), and virtual disk storage is done over a 10Gb iSCSI link to a TrueNAS system with two 1TB SSDs in a RAIDz mirror. I've also got an unRAID NAS that hosts my video project files. Pretty smooth overall :D