i'm pretty sure that was their point.

I'm actually fairly fit. I just always felt more comfortable standing and wiping than sitting down

It's crazy to me how small women's pants pockets are. Like dayum y'all really can't hold shit in there

Gotcha. So just for future reference, are we not allowed/supposed to ask questions like this in this community? Or is it moreso just looked down upon in here than other communities that are specifically suited for questions like it?

it's really hard out here for us thicc thighed homies 😔

It's wild how quick some people on here automatically assume negative intent with questions like these.

Where is the place for that? Just want to hear some honest perspectives for educations sake.

watched the whole video. 10/10 would do again

Not a bot account. Literally just posted the same question but reversed so both groups would have a place to answer.

honest, well-thought out, and unbiased answer

update?

Butt wipes are an absolute game changer. If I don't use them I just feel dirty for the rest of the day until I get a chance to shower

That's kind of what I meant. Didn't articulate it well enough. I see it as like a "hey, because my partner is doing this for me, I WANT to do this for them." Reciprocation of effort. Not necessarily just finances. I've been in situations where I felt like I was putting in more effort and it wasn't being reciprocated. So I was wondering if it was fair to expect equal reciprocation in a relationship where both people are able to contribute the same things

Wait so with the bidet do you still wipe after the little splish sploosh or do you just air dry?

It's interesting how much you assumed of my intentions based on me asking an honest question.

I asked because I had a conversation about this with someone I was saw as a dating potential. We both went to the same school, took the same classes, and make around the same salary-wise. She asked why I haven't dated her yet and it was because she has expectations of a relationship that didn't align with mine.