kay

@kay@lemm.ee
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Joined 13 months ago

there's sth inherently disturbing in people setting their pfp to a pre-teen then horny posting

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The Qt5 fandom is dying, repost if you're a true cutie :3

If this is abt trans men who wanna conform the 'I love your boobs' is sth I don't blame people for being upset about.

my dad has a 10 year old beer mug with this exact (translated) image on it 😭😭😭

holy shit what is it with some of yall and wanting to look 9 and dress in fetish maid outfits

please for the love of transness stop this, it makes me feel horrible about being trans when yall are like this

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Said women have every right to do whatever, including doing SW. This is not an individual problem.

The problematic part is people actively searching out and forming communities around pron with women looking as close to a kid as possible. Condemning those guys has absolutely nothing to do with the people in the content and in no way shames them.

It ain't the women at fault, nor the content inherently, it's the context and people fetishizing them in a way they prolly would't be comfortable with in the first place.

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the driver is either queer or a sex offender, no inbetween

pls don't post European politics stuff if you don't know the details of the situation.

As opposed to the democratic political system in china I assume? I'm so fucking sick of American "leftists" simping for the boots they haven't felt.

Bro watch your ankles when you pivot like that :3

this sounds like a 1:1 transcript of what I got arguing with anime pedos... not a fan. There are definetly things that took artistry to make that are still immoral and/or dangerous.

stop fetishizing drawings of 10 year olds

My Witcher 3 Stash inventory was so big the game lagged for multiple seconds every time I moved an item :3

Android is also open source and developed by Google... these aren't mutually exclusive

If you want chromium without Google get 'ungoogled chromium'

she looks 12

don't do IE dirty like that :(

You haven't posted anything in a month and that is what made you post again? How about you actually followed the rule and help give ppl bellylaughs instead.

"Anti-sensitive" types get triggered way easier than sensitive ones apparently, who would've thought

the word's still there if you wanna stare at it or sth, or you could post your own memes or read feminist literature :3

This is a little suprising to me... yes, unquestionably and your use of "now" there makes me think you're very young (NOT derogatory)

As with any slur it's use and user are what make it (un)acceptable so I don't take issue with it in progressive spaces, but I can understand why, with the internet's pseudo-anonimity, ppl could be made uncomfortable by a stranger saying it. I don't see what the harm in being cautious with language is in a feminist & pro-queer community. And I don't like the inclination to struggle against changes in language...

I don't need to tell you "X is a slur now?" is a very common reactionary impulse I think.

196 has always been fascinating to me, I've gotten barraged on the old subreddit before for being anti lolicon and a lot of dubious comments borderline defending creepy stuff get a lot of tracktion sometimes - only served to make me more aggressive on the topic which is prolly a good thing for me.

I get we're a bunch of kinky queers and people are thus quick to get defensive about any percieved policing of sexuality, but there are some things that make me feel like some people here have alterior motives and there's people who haven't really thought about ethics in relation to pornographic content that buy into the former group's narrative a little too quickly.

Linux has purpose built distros for pretty much anything. It's not that you're wrong, you prolly just tried and are talking abt something that didn't fit you. Try Mint or something.

I know I'm late and you've probably picked up enough many people already. Either way, here's my Linktree. Instagram, which I use "the most" bcs that's where my friends are, is at the bottom.

I avoid social media for the most part, but I've taken to 196 and Lemmy a lot.

Everything I've seen from the mods makes me think we'd agree on pretty much everything. I'd love to help where I can and meet cool new people in the process.

Whether or not I'm even needed I can at least use the fact I have your attention to thank you for upkeeping one of the best & funniest queer-friendly spaces I've found. Much love :)

Yeah, I can see that for sure.

I don't like the mini version "she's one thousand years old in the lore, she just looks like a kid" tho. I know some of you that see art like this more regularily might not see this the same because of what you've self normalized, but that right there is a preteen with slightly exaggarated breasts, and adding boobs to a child doesn't make fetishization of the other features of them any more exusable. (I know you aren't saying it is btw, it's a general statement)

Wow ok as someone who doesn't engage with anime much, some of you who've normalized the artstyle to yourself are blind about just how neotenous some anime characters are drawn to be

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This could be true, but looks unlikely bcs

  1. The name of the forum - it is not petite women or whatever, it's literally 'fauxbait'
  2. A below comment from Doctorcrimson who seem to have gotten a very different impression than you from the same community

Do explain how banning porn groups forms echochambers tho, never heard that one before

I'm sorry, I can't post images bcs of a bug, but I urge you to google images 9 year old, 15 year old and 20 year old women and compare them with the pic in the meme... I don't care much for what weebs use to signify age in anime characters because that's a standard within an industry that heavily fetishises childish characteristics in women in general. If a sexualized character looks more like a real kid than a real woman, it's a problem.

Also "she's an older kid, c'mon" doesn't help the case even a percentage point.

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pls pull up images of real people and compare. Alternatively show to people around you who don't engage with anime stuff and ask them to estimate.

I get our standards are different bcs I don't care for the artstyle (I also don't know "the entire character's appearance", I see what's in front of me), but you have to realise mine is prolly the majority viewpoint outside terminally online spaces - you can test that, do it.

Ok, that news never got through to me. Thanks!

ty <3

exe, msi, sh... It's honestly not very difficult to get the difference between debs and other formats, and you don't have to either. You open the app store or download a .deb from a webpage and you're done.

There's bits where Linux is too fragmented, but for most distros with a good appstore setup, this flat out isn't one of them.

I switched recently and it took a while to be a 'power user' again, but the mainstream functionality works and makes sense about the same as Windows.

"Actual socialist societies" - which ones I wonder?

Also I like the wordplay of "seeing some good things...". If someone replies to a post expressing grievance about the holocaust with "but guys hitler provided good childcare benefits" (made up exmp), are they "just seeing some good things"?

Context matters a bunch and most of the time people saying stuff like that and what you said want to talk about the semantic accuracy of their statement and ignore its context (and the reason they made it), to cry about how they're being censored for a 'technically accurate' statement.

Literally the same rhetoric the "IDW" uses to appeal to the less intelligent of kids. It'd be embarrassing if it'd worked on you.