Even if your security oriented it seems many frown upon any self hosting whatsoever.
Even if your security oriented it seems many frown upon any self hosting whatsoever.
I got a small team in school to all adopt my self hosted Matrix as a chat solution for a project we were working on throughout the year. It was great. Everyone jumped back to Discord after we graduated though.
Yes, I'm sure many idots believe in this pyramid
Setting up an app in docker is the easiest option, even more than just simply installing the binary?
Big deal, just self host in a VPS if you're willing to pay $$$.
Don't make the mistake though of self hosting (Dendrite) as it will just choke, in my case it was a single user instance subscribed to only a handful of channels but apparently that was too much for my server to load messages in any manner that would be considered quick.
I've self hosted several services at once on there but apparently Matrix is just too heavy too handle compared to other things.
This isn't new. I've been running my personal instance since last year using it.
The specific distro doesn't really matter. What matters is package choice (being able to do the few things you listed with the apps you would like to use). I guess if you're among the Debian evangelists you probably value stability more than any other consideration. Just pick some server distro or Debian again.