Not really an answer to your question, but your reply reminded me of the Paradox of Tolerance.
Not really an answer to your question, but your reply reminded me of the Paradox of Tolerance.
You might have a look at the “Genderbread Person”. It gets at some of the variables you’re considering. https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/genderbread-person/#gp4
Now we’re Jive talkin’!
That’s basically what Tim Berners-Lee is proposing with Solid. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solid_(web_decentralization_project)