On desktop I just stay logged in. There's a 20+ second delay when making comments. On Android I couldn't even log in yesterday, I got "FetchError: invalid json response body at http://lemmy:8536/api/v3/site"
Now I can't reply: "404: TypeError: Cannot read properties of undefined (reading 'replies')"
If you see this, I finally got it go through after several attempts.
A false sense of not being alone.