rivvvver

@rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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Joined 11 months ago

they/them, ona/ona

mi toki e toki pona

hate it when someone walks over my hottest desserts :(

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be gay do crime >:3

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basic biology when advanced biology walks in 😮

fr tho being female/male/intersex should not ever dictate who u get to be as a person and what ur societal roles are allowed to be. fuck that ancient conservative belief and just accept us for being who we are.

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fuck yessss thank u so much!

"i just need a little to relax from work today"

*rests until midnight*

bnuuy

Randevu

interestingly, thats what the turkish word for rendezvous is.

in turkish, words are written exactly as theyre pronounced at all times.

just a funny sidenote :3

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no, i dont. and thats why i support trans kids instead of forcing them to live as who u decide them to be based on their fucking genitalia alone.

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i usually go for nutty scents or something sweet and flowery :3

i wanna not have to wear exactly that. i want my hoodie and jeans and im happy

petition to make this the new logo for this community

GERARD WAY BALL SCRATCHING

yess thats what i was looking for. thanks for ur help!!

nono, im not suggesting forcing any gender on children. they can play dress up all they like, and if its ever more than dressup, i will still support them if its what they want.

I'm just sick of bi erasure in queer communities, being belittled by being called "half gay, half straight". Or even "oh you're just a cishet who wants to fit into queer spaces".
No. I am bi. Not half this, half that, not pretending.

im sorry you had to experience that and i agree with you there.

bisexuality is its own thing and should be understood as such, not written off as a combination of two other sexualities and nothing more (and even so, claiming that ppl in queer spaces are just "pretending" is ofc incredibly harmful to everyone).

having said that, bisexuality is often (imo incorrectly) defined as being attracted to men and women. which excludes nonbinary ppl, even tho many bisexuals are also attracted to ppl outside of the binary genders.

so i think in this context, its comforting for me to think of the bi- in bisexual as meaning homo- & heterosexual (nb inclusive), rather than men & women attraction.

however as i said, this should not be used to understand bisexuality beyond just a surface-level and should never be used to discriminate or make judgements on someones "queerness".

I genuinely did not know about people who define themselves as non-binary men or women, could you help me understand?

so theres many different nonbinary genders ofc (its a spectrum so technically.. infinite?).

i identify as a demi-girl, which is someone who identifies as a woman, but not strongly enough to be considered fully on the binary side of it. perhaps it helps to visualize it on a spectrum with binary men on one side and binary women on the other. demigenders would be sort of, half-way between the center and one of the ends. making them non-binary but also perhaps more of one binary gender than the other.

hope this helps as just an idea. please keep in mind tho that this ofc doesnt fit for everyone who identifies as demigender, its just my understanding of it for myself.

I as a man can only be heterosexual if I exclusively am attracted to women.

"homo-" means same or similar. "hetero-" means different or other.

i am not usually the kind who immediately cites definitions of words, however in this case, this is how the prefix is used and understood all over the scientific world https://www.etymonline.com/word/hetero-

your definition of heterosexuality is very unusual to me and as a bisexual nonbinary woman, it definitely does not fit for me.

im curious tho, do heterosexual nonbinary ppl exist in your definition here? or is that mutually exclusive? and whats the equivalent of nonbinary ppl who arent attracted to other ppl of their own gender but only those of a different gender?

lastly,

And enbies are not women, even if AFAB. They are neither man nor woman, that's what makes them non-binary, that's the point.

nonbinary men and women exist and are valid gender identities.

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and how much co2 does the trolley use, exactly?

perhaps one of these ppl will shut down a coal factory in the future and offset all of their emissions massively.

also, why do u care so much for their co2 emissions if life has only "emotional" importance to u?

ashensss referenceeeee :33

would that be a reason for it to be removed by a mod?

they totally can actually. i get along completely fine with vegan and non-vegan ppl in my life. why cant u?

hahaha so true, except when its not.