Last time I wrote a question - probably a couple of months ago. Last time I posted a question .... aaaaages ago.
By the time I get sufficiently frustrated to contemplate asking a question, I find the clarity that comes from stopping and trying to clearly lay out a question usually results in my figuring it out just before I hit post.
I tried. Going through that loop convinced neovim is not an ide. It's a means by which someone who wants to build an ide can build one.
If you're one of those people who doesn't want to build an ide, like me, it's not for you.