I'm sure toxic people will figure out lemmy eventually too, but for now it's been nice.
The only subreddit I still care about has been private from the start and has between 300-400 people in it who have been randomly invited over time.
Post or comment every week and get kicked.
On the whole, lemmy reminds me of that place a bit since the communities are smaller and idk how to put this but that feels. .. more human?