A person an regret having children or missing out on the (childless) life they might have had without regretting the human beings who are their children. Those are just... different things.
Not to their children.
Weird hill to die on man. This is an innocuous, very reasonable comment.
Maybe not to you, but plenty of us are secure enough in our existence to have honest conversations with our parents about these things. I hope you get there some day, friend.
Lol when I was 17, during my mom's divorce of us, she told me she wishes she hadn't had kids because she didn't get to party enough.
So now I have 3 kids and I'm a swinger, best of both worlds.
A person an regret having children or missing out on the (childless) life they might have had without regretting the human beings who are their children. Those are just... different things.
Not to their children.
Weird hill to die on man. This is an innocuous, very reasonable comment.
Maybe not to you, but plenty of us are secure enough in our existence to have honest conversations with our parents about these things. I hope you get there some day, friend.
Lol when I was 17, during my mom's divorce of us, she told me she wishes she hadn't had kids because she didn't get to party enough.
So now I have 3 kids and I'm a swinger, best of both worlds.
Things worked out