Before I read the comments I'm sure it's either jokes/memes or "this is unhealthy"
Nah fuck that. Some people deserve lifelong hate.
You don't sit there seething day after day, dwelling on it constantly.
But whenever they come up, perfectly reasonable to say "fuck that noise, piss off" and be done with it.
"forgive and forget" can eat shit and die.
It takes emotional bandwidth to carry hate, whether you think about it often or not.
It's not a question of right or wrong, or whether it's deserving or not. You're paying for it as long as you're carrying it, so I would ask if it's still worth it.
For some people, yes. Most people aren't worth it, but many are.
Have you ever bought something that seemed worth it at first, but found out later it was a bad deal?
Hate typically affects you far more than who you hold it for.
True. That's why hate should be relinquished unless you have actual plans to use it. Even then, it needs to be toned down to keep a level head.
Before I read the comments I'm sure it's either jokes/memes or "this is unhealthy"
Nah fuck that. Some people deserve lifelong hate.
You don't sit there seething day after day, dwelling on it constantly.
But whenever they come up, perfectly reasonable to say "fuck that noise, piss off" and be done with it.
"forgive and forget" can eat shit and die.
It takes emotional bandwidth to carry hate, whether you think about it often or not.
It's not a question of right or wrong, or whether it's deserving or not. You're paying for it as long as you're carrying it, so I would ask if it's still worth it.
For some people, yes. Most people aren't worth it, but many are.
Have you ever bought something that seemed worth it at first, but found out later it was a bad deal?
Hate typically affects you far more than who you hold it for.
True. That's why hate should be relinquished unless you have actual plans to use it. Even then, it needs to be toned down to keep a level head.