What are you grateful for this week? Gratitude thread

Gil (he/they)@beehaw.org to Chat@beehaw.org – 7 points –

Inspired by another thread I saw recently. For this thread, I have two parts to this. What are you grateful for:

  • on Beehaw? - Anything you like about this community, an interaction you appreciated, something that brightened your day, an aspect of site culture that appeals to you, etc.

  • offline/in real life? - Just more generally, what are you thankful for? Anything that's happened in your life recently that has turned out to be good, people making a positive difference in your life, etc.

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For beehaw, I'm grateful that I haven't had to take a single moderation action yet! I've been keeping an eye out just in case on c/science, but even when there's been some disagreement about how to, eg, interpret a study people have been engaged in constructive discussion. I think that's really indicative of the quality of the community we've got going here! Love y'all ♥

In real life I'm grateful to the folks at my local grocery store. My wallet was stolen over the weekend and though my bank gave me a digital card while I wait for a new one to show up in the mail, it hasn't been working. The folks at the grocery store were super accommodating with it and happily held on to my groceries for me while I hurried home to get a check (it's been forever since I've needed to use a check!) to pay for them. They even put my frozen stuff in the walk-in in the back so it wouldn't melt before I returned. I guess some might say "They're just doing their job," but for me it really made a difference on an otherwise stressful day.

I am thankful for my kids. I have four who are all intelligent and amazing individuals. I need to tell them how much I appreciate them more.

Beehaw:

This thread gaining traction and thoughtful responses is indicative. I'm grateful for the positive community here!

In life:

I'm very grateful for my kiddos who make me laugh and fill my bucket every day, a meaningful job I enjoy, a supportive partner, living in one of the best places in the world (imho), and having effectively unlimited great books to read.

I'm living the dream!

On Beehaw I'm grateful for the positive vibe of the place in general. There's a lack of nastiness and negativity here which feels very comfortable. Others in this thread have mentioned the no downvotes and I have to agree to the extent that when I drop by other instances it kind of unsettled me to see it, I prefer life without it.

In life I'm grateful for the love of my kids, which makes me feel like I belong in the world. Also my job because I enjoy it and it gives me the means to support my family.

Seconding the positive vibe of beehaw! I posted about a relationship quandary yesterday and the replies were so respectful. I've deleted online personal questions before because of how aggressive people have been, but here everyone was really kind, even when disagreeing. It actually cheered me up a lot. I'm very grateful for that.

I don't really have anything to add about Beehaw that hasn't already been said numerous times. I'm very new, but it seems like a friendly place.

IRL, I'm happy that my 7 week baby slept 6 hours two nights ago! She usually maxes out around 4 of sleeping, with occasional nights where she's hungry every other hour, so the occasional long sleep stretches are amazing. I'm hoping for more sleep to come.

Record your baby's cry! It seems weird, I know, but they lose that newborn cry so quickly.

In general, though, remember to take pictures of the (literally) shitty moments, too. Kids love to hear stories about themselves as a baby and you're so sleep deprived right now that your memory isn't firing on all cylinders.

Records will help you remember so you can tell your kids the story of the time they shit an over the wall explosively. They'll love it.

And I know it seems like that should be something really memorable as a parent, but you'll be cleaning up so many bodily fluids it isn't really noteworthy after a while. And did I mention the sleep deprivation affecting memory? I don't remember.

I finally went through and got my first haircut since 2018-2019. Went to a local queer barbershop, got my hair cleaned up and fully bleached and it was amazing. Took 6 hours to bleach, since I have a ton of hair (one of the largest hair jobs the person doing it ever had they said), but it turned out great. Then got home, dyed it, and was so damn euphoric and happy. Its nice to finally be in control of my hair.

Hair is honestly such a big thing for queer people. Be it growing it out, chopping it off, bleaching, dyeing, it plays a pretty big role in how you get read.