My wife is 7 years older than me. We met in college. I think I was 22. We've been married for 25 years.

There's a lot of good comments and suggestions, but the one that I'm not seeing is, "tell others".

Do you perform support for friends and family members? Explain why it's not in their best interest to use Chrome (and Google products in general), then ask and help them to install and use alternatives.

Have a laypersons response to why they should avoid Google for that person you're chatting with on the bus. Have a response ready to the awful, "but I don't have anything to hide" counterargument. As an aside, being the tin foil hat wearing guy/gal doesn't help the cause, explain it in plain language.

Video guides are nice, but I prefer Grog's Knots. He even has an app for offline knot learning, say, when you're deep in the woods and it's raining hard and your tent's rain cover blows off into the lake and you thankfully brought a tarp and rope but don't know how to make one of those adjustable knots that you can just slip-tighten. You know, theoretically speaking.

On a side note and completely unrelated, bring one of those big grout sponges when you go camping. In addition to mopping up all the water in your tent, it makes a nice pillow if your inflatable pillow decides to run away in the night in a storm and go swimming in the lake.

TL;DR: I hate camping.

This is not uncommon in IT type jobs with individuals from a certain country. I was at lunch with a coworker when he was approached to do an interview for a cousin of one of his friends. I must have looked puzzled because he explained it to me and I was flabbergasted. He said that it was more common during phone interviews, but since "they all look the same" to white hiring managers, it still happens over video interviews.

I can't remember the details or if it applies to the town in question, but I remember a closing agent impressing upon me the importance of homesteading for tax purposes. Perhaps petitioning the city or county to increase property taxes for non-homesteaded properties will simultaneously decrease the local citizen tax burden and dissuade investment properties.

For the frugal sysadmin, Free DNS!

Pants!

I should move somewhere warm.

+1 for FOSS, but it's not easy to do. It's sort of like going vegan. It's great at first, but then you try to go out to eat and it's hard, family gatherings become difficult and political, people start to push meat or question your motives. You still feel good about it because you're doing it "for the animals" or whatever, but you're no longer in the mainstream. While your coworkers all go out to that new steak joint, you're left behind with your bag of broccoli.

To elaborate, look at Lemmy. You can get FOSS apps for your phone to browse Lemmy, but now try to coordinate some event, like your local soccer club using only FOSS. Plenty of folks are content to blindly consume what Zuck or Goog wants them to see and use.

Am I supposed to upvote this because it's awful advice or downvote it because it's depressing advice?

It seems like this person either had success with their advice or had nothing to say, but felt the need to say something.

My favorite advice for clinical depression is "just snap out of it."

In the early kernel (think pre 1.0), I "fixed" the CPU scheduler for performance. I gave too much privilege to user processes, who refused to relinquish control back to the OS.

Another time I was working on a multiprocess bootup configuration (before systemd) in a configuration where the main process would orchestrate the workers. Well, the main process would fork a child to do the work, then the child process would fork a child process to do it's work. It was infinite delegation and I ran out of pids.

I post videos a few times a year to share events with family. I just posted a few yesterday. I can't in good faith continue to post to YT and encourage my family to use it as the platform declares war on their users.

But what else is there that allows me to post videos for free and my family can just watch them without having to install a new app, register for yet another service or configure some obscure plug in?

I'd like to echo this point. As soon as you set your objective to pull in Reddit users, you've set yourself up as the "Reddit alternative", you'll be chasing Reddit features and attempting to please the Reddit users. To succeed at this game is to essentially end up creating Reddit, but never surpassing.

In my opinion, Lemmy needs to have a clear mindset on what Lemmy is and what it isn't, then stick to that.

shit in my free time

Life pro tip: shit at work and get paid for it. Unless you work at Amazon, of course.

What's the difference between an air fryer and a convection toaster oven. Everybody's so excited for air fryers but AFAIK, both just blow air around.

Hi! I'm not having any problems with linux. I just thought you'd like to know.

There. Now there's a message in the support forums about a person not having problems!

I use mine for a kitchen tablet. Basically it opens a web page where I have all my recipes and a unit converter.

This may be the push I need to migrate to Nextcloud. I'm struggling to identify my use cases, though and am wondering if all I really need is Syncthing.

Upvote for.disabling firmware. It's a sad state when the average printer consumer needs to know how to disable firmware updates and even needs sysadmin skills to know how to block a host from the internet.

There was a news station I saw while vacationing in the Smokies. They called it "news with a heart". They did all the same news stories, bit didn't dwell on the death toll or show video of the carnage. It was the first time I didn't become enraged by the news.

We have a drinking game for the NBC Nightly News. Drink any time they say "breaking news", "disaster", "epidemic" or show people crying. You won't make it through the news.

I don't know if it's at a 5th grade level, but the XKCD comic has an editor that flags words that are not in the top 500 most used words. The author used it in a few comics to explain complicated things in "plain English".

I have one in the kitchen, garage and utility (furnace) room. 2 were given to me by my insurance agent! The 3rd one I bought for my garage because, duh!

99% POV. The one time that I can remember 3rd person was one of the times when I died in my dream. I fell from a cliff in the US Southwest, like Arizona. About 1/2 way down the fall, I watched myself fall the remainder of the way and hit the ground. I "walked" around the impact site for a bit and then left, but at that point, I don't know who "I" was since "I" was obviously laying on the ground, dead.

Another time that I died, I was stuck in my body after being shot in the head, but unable to move, so I don't think that dying is why the POV changed.

I can't remember any other time that it wasn't POV mode.

link for the uninitiated.

I don't think they're being pointlessly pedantic. I've been around POS systems and some people call it by the letters, P.O.S. & others by the acronym, sounding like "pause". Nobody assumes you're talking about a Piece of Shit when you say "pause". Also for OOO ("oooh") vs O.O.O., which doesn't roll off the tongue, but you don't sound like Casper.

Now, being pointlessly pedantic, I find it interesting to think that if we continue to use the word acronym for initialisms, then the word acronym will actually be initialisms! English is weird!

If by "it doesn't get any better" you mean that the pain doesn't go away, you're correct, in my experience. It does get different, though. I heard someone once say that the pain becomes the new normal and I've found that to be accurate. It becomes a part of who you are. Over time, you learn how to move on and live. If not, like someone said in another comment, consider finding a professional to help guide you to explore your feelings.

Your exact predicament is common to many and the topic of many poems, books, songs and movies. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind comes to mind.

This, and addition to company sponsored anti features, governments can ask or force companies to add back doors, unbeknownst to the consumers. For this reason (and others), I'll only ever trust open source software for security software, like VPN.

Kubernetes is abbreviated K8s (because there's 8 letters between the "k" and the "s". K3s is a "lite" version. Generally speaking, kubernetes manages your containers. You basicaly tell K8s what the state should be and it does what it needs to do to get the environment as you've declared. It'll check and start or restart services, start containers on a node that can run them (like ensuring enough RAM is available). There's a lot more, but that's the general idea.

I had one from Sony a long time ago. It even had a cable you could attach between two of 'em (600 CDs!) so that it could seamlessly start playing another track while loading the next song. I dropped it during a move and the next time I opened the door, it spit gears at me. I had intended to fix it some day, but started watching Hoarders and decided it wasn't worth it.

The first step is important and well studied. Double your results with exercise by doing it outside. Again, it's well studied that being with nature improves your mood, so why not take a hike through the woods or along a river? Put your phone away, leave the earbuds at home and just focus on the moment.

From time to time, when the weather is good and everyone's still asleep, I'll take a hot cup of tea outside to the woods near my place and sit on a fallen tree and just be quiet. It improves my mood all day. I did it during the first snowfall of the year during covid and could hear the snowflakes hitting the leaves. I could still hear the yelling from inside the house, but somehow it was not my problem in that moment.

It sounds like you want something good, cheap and easy. I think you can only pick 2 of those requirements.

I know you're asking for tomato sauce, presumably for pasta, but look at what poor people have historically eaten. For example, beans and rice will feed you for pennies, but don't buy the canned beans, get a big bag for cheap. It's more work to soak and boil them, but that's your savings (labor). Dried beans and rice, when kept dry can last a decade.

I'm sure there are other cheap, filling foods, but I am tired.

I work at a big bank. I bank at a local credit union.

It's actually the opposite. To my knowlegde, Windows is the only OS that I've used that uses the file extension to determine the contents, but then they hide it from the user. So maybe file extensions are only for windows?

I'm using Kubernetes and many of the apps that I use require environment variables to pass secrets. Another option is the pod definition, which is viewable by anybody with read privileges to K8s. Secrets are great to secure it on the K8s side, but the application either needs to read the secret from a file or you build your own helm chart with a shell front end to create app config files on the fly. I'm sure there are other options, but there's no "one size fits all" type solution.

The real issue here is that the app is happy to expose it's environment variables with no consideration given to the fact that it may contain data that can be misused by bad actors. It's security 101 to not expose any more than the user needs to see which is why stack dumps are disabled on production implementations.

I tried many times to "go digital" at work, using different apps and methods, but it comes down to 3 things: I take notes and jot down ideas nonlinearly. For example, I'll start taking a note from a meeting or lecture, then have an idea that I'll jot down elsewhere, but go back to the original note to finish it then go and complete the idea. It's stupid, but it works for me. The second is that I infrequently need to review my notes that are written since they get committed to memory. Unfinished ideas are different. Third, I can find notes faster when I wrote them vs typed them. I have a photographic memory. My desk is a huge mess, but I can usually find what I need because I remember it's physical location in the pile.

For me, I find that I learn more effectively when I have a goal. Sure, it's great to follow somebody's "Hello World" web site tutorial, but the real learning comes when I start to extend it to include CI/CD for example.

As far as a use case, I'd say that learning IS the use case.

I just joined. Now what?

One line from your comment struck a chord. The part about maintenance and upgrades. I feel like I get stuff set up and working and go about my life and then a failure happens at the most inopportune moment. Mostly, the failures are when I have a few hours free and decide to upgrade the OS and everything breaks and all the dependencies fall apart and some feature is no longer supported. That's where I started looking to K8s to just roll back until I have time to manage it.

I started down this path after discovering that iTunes was flagging some of my music that I ripped from my own CDs or my dad's old records (that I now own). It shows on the iPod as "not available in this region" despite purchasing the physical CD from the record store across town!

The iPod is used 99% of the time in my car hooked to the radio, but I'll bring it into the office from time to time. I've been thinking to build something with a raspberry pi and big SD or SSD so that it shows up on my home WiFi when I park and I can syncthing or drag and drop music, but I don't have a lot of time to play. The iPod was a Xmas gift from my dad and (I know it's stupid) but I want to keep using it if I can.

I use it mostly because of the offline capabilities. I use it in state and national parks, but also navigation. I'd really like to learn to give back as I'm driving around town. Is there some guide for his to contribute on the go?

Can you elaborate? Hardware or software or both? Other than one network appliance, most of my stuff isn't too old.

Now that I start thinking about it, my work stuff may be impacted.