I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces

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speak for yourself. i have found dating as a 30+ adult to be way more dramatic and miserable than it was in my 20s.

nobody in my 20s was having a temper tantrum at dinner because the restaurant isn't expensive enough for their 'brand'.

This sounds like one very specific date

nah it's multiple dates. it's also a common attitude that men need to 'impress' dates by spending a lot at restaurants otherwise they 'devalue' a woman. asking someone out on a cheap date to get to know them isn't the point... the point is to win them over by spending money on them.

basically a lot of people see dating as prostitution with extra steps. and wonder why they are single.

Dude, I've been on many, many dates in my 30s. I have never experienced this in the least and I am a frugle date. I recommend reevaluating your "type" of women if this is a recurring thing.

Try dating someone who is mentally in their 30s too.