‘Bumble fumble’: online dating apps struggle as people swear off swiping

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‘Bumble fumble’: online dating apps struggle as people swear off swiping
theguardian.com

Online dating industry in crisis as shares fall and nearly half of all users report negative experiences on the apps

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Get hardly anyone to notice me on okcupid, so I cancel my subscription, and within a day or two after it lapsed, I get 25 people interested in me, but I can't see their profile unless I pay, so I resubscribe only to see they're all in the Philippines and Africa. Then it's back to getting nothing. It seems to me that okcupid baited me into buying a subscription and I fell for it. The whole service is a scam.

Yeah, all of the Match.com owned services have done that for ages. Okcupid used to be truly a unique service, but it got transformed into another match.com zombie. Yay for late capitalism consolidation efficiency, or something...

Had it happen to me too. They'll refund you for this. Just be polite when asking for it.

My review on the Play Store: “Premium is a scam. Hides likes which come from all over the world (clickfarms?) even though I set my radius to 5 km. But of course they only show you the fake likes (all of them) after one pays for premium.”

Wtf was your radius set to???

OkCupid only checks the swiper's radius, not the swipee's. So you can set your radius to 1 mile, but you're still going to get swiped on by the scam accounts in Singapore, and OkCupid will use that fact to lure you into buying a subscription.

It's set at a 50 mile radius, I have no interest in dating people on the other side of the world, I'd prefer someone I can interact with in person without having to hop on an airplane.