Facial disfigurement: 'Restaurant asked me to leave over condition'
bbc.com
A man with a facial disfigurement says he was asked to leave a restaurant in south London because staff said he was "scaring the customers".
Oliver Bromley has Neurofibromatosis Type 1, a genetic condition that causes non-cancerous tumours to grow on his nerves.
Speaking to the BBC, he said when he had gone to place an order at a restaurant in Camberwell, staff told him there had been complaints about him.
"It's a horrible thing to happen. I took it very personally on the day," he said.
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Woosh
It's pretty clear that they are saying your phrasing was pretty dehumanizing. They didn't get wooshed, they were pointing out your well-intended micro aggression.
It looks dehumanizing because they cherry-picked my reply. I referred to him as a person in the very same sentence. When I said “that”, I was referring to the skin grafts and scabs. Those are things. They are not him.
The accusation was not made in good faith, and/or was made by someone with poor reading comprehension. They definitely got wooshed, and it’s pretty clear that you did, too.
Okay bud. This means way too much to you. I think maybe you should take a step back and take a deep breath, because holy fuck.
lol yeah, whatever, “bud”