My parents are overbearing, clingy,and guilt trippers; I haven't committed any murders yet.
Exactly. They still can't point to a person and say "This person will kill and this one won't". It seems to require a confluence of a number of things. A violent childhood, a socially stunted development, opportunity, a lack of empathy and a psychopathic mentality, an ability to compartmentalize (good family man at home, violent psycho outside of it). Even then it still isn't a guarantee.
They do it because they choose to. Regardless of all other circumstances, the choice is always theirs.
But that's not helpful, it might be true in some sense but then it is for everything - would you rather wallow in hate or try to understand and prevent similar things happening in the future?
My parents are overbearing, clingy,and guilt trippers; I haven't committed any murders yet.
Exactly. They still can't point to a person and say "This person will kill and this one won't". It seems to require a confluence of a number of things. A violent childhood, a socially stunted development, opportunity, a lack of empathy and a psychopathic mentality, an ability to compartmentalize (good family man at home, violent psycho outside of it). Even then it still isn't a guarantee.
They do it because they choose to. Regardless of all other circumstances, the choice is always theirs.
But that's not helpful, it might be true in some sense but then it is for everything - would you rather wallow in hate or try to understand and prevent similar things happening in the future?
"yet"