Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags

Ilflish@lemm.ee to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml – 269 points –
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They are happy to see you!

They handle stress and disappointment well.

They don't externalize their frustrations, and take responsibility for solving their own problems. They act like a functioning adult.

They have interests and hobbies that they are happy to do alone, or share.

Unfair - but they don't have intense money, drug, social pressure in their life, a stable situation is the good grounds for relationships

bonus: If their parents are attractive, then they could be a good partner who ages gracefully with you

That bonus really looked like it was going somewhere else for a second there.

bonus: if their parents are attractive, you have a potential thruple opportunity to fall back on if the relationship sours.

"Then you might have a plan B if the relationship doesn't work out as expected"