I this a firm and polite way to tell an opinionated coworker to stop pushing his agenda I don't care about?
cross-posted from: https://linux.community/post/906126
I've observed if I say nothing (because I simply don't know how to react), opinionated people think you agree with them, which I don't. I don't care.
what I want to tell him, next time he starts ranting: 'I don't care what you think, leave me alone'.
However, I may have to work with this person in the future, so what about 'you don't have to tell me everything you think, most of the time I don't pay attention' and if he keeps pushing it 'it's tiring working with a person who has to rant to feel good, it's boring and makes me ignore you, which is a problem, because we work together.' And leave.
What about 'everybody has problems, maybe talk to a therapist? I cannot help you'.
Or maybe simply leaving when he starts his rants?
I prefer "Let's keep our conversations professional." It lets him know that you're there to work, not BS.
Realistically, though, this is a problem for your manager to handle.
Plot twist: that coworker is pushing the Agile agenda.
Hahaha, oh fuck, the Agile Acolytes are out!
Agile's great and all, but sometimes it's just applied to shit where it just doesn't help.
Agile sprints are 2-6weeks.
I have never, in over 10 years of working in agile seen a single company go one day over 2weeks.
Do you have a moment to talk about the gospel of scrum?