Virgins don't know that you suck at sex. It's an insecurity thing. Most people don't realize it.
And then there's me. Who has been with one woman, who was actually appalled by the whole attachment thing, but controlled so much of my life that I became permanently awkward, uncomfortable AND stuck with super low self esteem.
I don't know if I suck at sex, or just suck in general. If I survive this divorce I'll take that win right now.
For whatever reason, we make sex weird. Communicate with your future partners and it will be a lot more enjoyable for both of you.
Virgins don't know that you suck at sex. It's an insecurity thing. Most people don't realize it.
And then there's me. Who has been with one woman, who was actually appalled by the whole attachment thing, but controlled so much of my life that I became permanently awkward, uncomfortable AND stuck with super low self esteem.
I don't know if I suck at sex, or just suck in general. If I survive this divorce I'll take that win right now.
For whatever reason, we make sex weird. Communicate with your future partners and it will be a lot more enjoyable for both of you.
You got this.