TIL that in the Wild West, men had "bachelor marriages" and half the men wore bandanas on their arm to signal they're playing the feminine role
He surmised that the isolation of such places may foster a “make do” attitude. “There is a fair amount of sexual contact among older males in Western rural areas, the type of homosexuality which was probably among pioneers and outdoor men.
Today it is found among ranchmen, cattle men, prospectors, lumbermen, and farming groups in general that are virile and physically active. These are men who have faced the rigors of nature in the wild. They live on realities and on a minimum of theory. Such a background breeds the attitude that sex is sex.”
What was perhaps most shocking about homosexuality in the Old West was not that it was so common but that it wasn’t a big deal. In fact, miners and cowboys settled into convenient partnerships called “bachelor marriages.” When the miners in Angel Camp in northern California had dances, half the men wore bandanas around their arms to signal their feminine role. It was also very common and accepted for same sex bed mates to sleep together in small beds.
https://www.notesfromthefrontier.com/amp/homo-sexuality-on-the-range
this has been true several times in the last century or 2; but somehow we collectively keep forgetting about it.
I mean, it's not an issue of forgetting, it's actively erased.
i don't doubt that it's erased; it's merely astounding to me that something that existed so recent that it's in living memory (the 1970's) is still forgotten/erased somehow.
Oh absolutely, just calling it out because the fact that it is erased is important. There are malicious actors at play, and we should recognize what's happening.
No citations on the article. Bit skeptical that this was as widespread as they're implying.