Sucks when the person doesn't like to communicate with you and just ignores her own issues to just satisfy you.
I was less satisfied because I wasn't allowed to figure it out and just felt like a bad person. The sex drive went down for her after a year, no wonder, but its not my fault either.
2 years later and I broke with her up as she was pretty manipulative and impossible to talk to from the beginning.
Indeed, there are toxic people out there. I hope you're doing better now.
Sounds familiar. I wasnât doing it practically at all for my ex, and I could tell, but she refused to acknowledge any problem. Like, she wasnât cumming. She said she was.
I remember the literal one time I made her cum she said in this sort of surprised voice âI ⌠Iâm cummingâ.
Itâs not that orgasms were new to her. Itâs that because I wasnât pleasing her, she assumed I had never pleased any woman and that I didnât know the difference. So she just lied, and went to find other men to get her to cum. As in, just cheated on me to get what she needed.
That hurt extremely bad. Hearing that somethingâs not working for my partner is slightly deflating, followed by exciting again when whatever we changed makes it work. Hearing (implicitly) that Iâm too hopeless to even be notified of the problem, fucked with my head badly.
Sucks when the person doesn't like to communicate with you and just ignores her own issues to just satisfy you.
I was less satisfied because I wasn't allowed to figure it out and just felt like a bad person. The sex drive went down for her after a year, no wonder, but its not my fault either.
2 years later and I broke with her up as she was pretty manipulative and impossible to talk to from the beginning.
Indeed, there are toxic people out there. I hope you're doing better now.
Sounds familiar. I wasnât doing it practically at all for my ex, and I could tell, but she refused to acknowledge any problem. Like, she wasnât cumming. She said she was.
I remember the literal one time I made her cum she said in this sort of surprised voice âI ⌠Iâm cummingâ.
Itâs not that orgasms were new to her. Itâs that because I wasnât pleasing her, she assumed I had never pleased any woman and that I didnât know the difference. So she just lied, and went to find other men to get her to cum. As in, just cheated on me to get what she needed.
That hurt extremely bad. Hearing that somethingâs not working for my partner is slightly deflating, followed by exciting again when whatever we changed makes it work. Hearing (implicitly) that Iâm too hopeless to even be notified of the problem, fucked with my head badly.