I made dis. Pls be gentle

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Take a moment and think about the fact that, in the wild, another animal handling your babies is a great way to lose them, so the vast majority of animals have evolved to be protective of their young.

Now think about how much it means that dogs let humans handle their babies.

I've forgotten the name of the paper but I read a fairly in-depth report on human/dog co-evolution and how it has ingrained an instinctual understanding into each other even as little more than babies for both species.

We also tend to share our babies with dogs. My sister has recently had skin dogs and my fur babies are very interested in standing by the bassinet and watching over them. They're also extremely patient with their flailing hands and curious fingers.

While the reasons why aren't all peachy, and much of the framework it happens in is incredibly abusive and horrible, what humans and dogs share is very beautiful.

My dog recently broke her leg, she was screaming in terrible pain, but she went dead silent when we arrived and started investigating. That level of trust is incredible. I don't know exactly what's going on in her head, but I know that when something is wrong and I show up to help her breathing calms and she relaxes. Just as when I think I hear something in the night or whatever I look to her for guidance on whether it's a threat.

Meh, dogs have been selectively bred for millennia to bring things to people. They're also completely dependent on humans not only for nutrition, but also probably in this case behavioural guidance.

It's not so much "here human I trust you so much I'll let you hold my baby" as it is "here human this smells important".

I mean that dog looks pretty resigned to the fact that the human is in full control.

That is the exact same look my sister gave me the first time I held my niece. That's "I trust you but be careful"

Which, in that moment you were in full control.

When I was finished making "squee!" noises, I took my phone around to show each member of my household so they could also make "squee!" noises.

This is the greatest thing I’ve ever seen

Beautiful doxies. I have 3, they're such amazing creatures.

I have one myself! She is probably half doxie, but definitely has the personality.

And a heart on her butt.

10 pounds of crazy in a 1 pound bag.

It’s usually the good kind of crazy when they’re not picking fights with a bear and leaving you to deal with it.

I miss mom’s runt; she was always up for a camping trip- and a snuggle.

I made dis.

You don't mean this in the sense that you fathered it, right? Just to eliminate ambiguity

I think the title is from the perspective of the (adult) dog. "I made this, I trust you to handle my young, but please be careful"

I intended to make a little joke, maybe some people will appreciate it, maybe not