I bet cash money that husband has a secret Grindr account.
Safest bet in the world, husband is gayer than a unicorn fart
Claiming that someone's homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia.
It's also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit.
Gold medal in mental acrobatics, damn
Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection.
Unfortunately, being gay isn't a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit.
I get what you're saying.
But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about.
i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay
Well, that's just because you're Im an asshole.
… i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people?
Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize
That's embarrassing
haha it’s all good
no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia.
Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not... looks like he's hiding.
?? It's blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them?
Um, I'd argue that it's blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset.
If gay was truly okay, and we didn't have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows.
Cash money, now?
"He generally prefers me to my husband"
Whoo boy, I wonder why
She provides baby food. Why wouldn’t the baby prefer her more. Heck I’ll hang out with someone more if they gave me food.
More importantly it sounds like she doesn't judge and criticize everything the son does, at one year old
I am straight, and I have to ask: Are we okay?
i certainly am not okay
(though i don't think it's because i'm straight)
What's bothering you?
gestures vaguely at everything
Yeah
Clearly we are not.
I really hope this is fake.
Is it from reddit? Because there's a 99.99998% chance it's fake if it is
The husbands of some of my acquaintances are exactly like this. While I'm generally repulsed by the term Low Value Male, these are the types of men that I think fit the bill. Manly homophobes crippled by their ingrained toxic masculinity
Reading the post like:
Even if this isn't real there 100% are loads of people who actually think like this
Man some people really should not have kids
Kid put a banana in his mouth. Yeah kids put everything in their mouths! Be glad it's food and not random carpet lint.
Exactly. And everyone knows if a kid puts carpet in his mouth he's a god damn lesbe-ann.
That must be where I went wrong. I put carpet in my mouth and a banana in my ass
Bad husband
No brewskis
That's a divorcin'
I just feel bad that she had to have a kid with the guy to find this out
Ah yes, my childhood. Too bad they failed to genderize me
I genuinely feel sad for people that love in such fear and anger. It sounds exhausting.
I'm gonna go with fake.
I’d say this is fake but I also know people who would think like this
If he likes the mom more than the dad, isn't it a sign he's not gay?
Only a gay baby would feel actual love towards a parent, especially if it's their mom.
Totally normal and stable heterosexual man.
This has to be fake, the part about the books just gives it away, with the kid being one year old.
Parents should be reading books to kids from day 1
Thats just vile wtf
Wife should return that one to sender.
Fellas, is it gay to be checks notes A LITERAL CHILD!?
I bet cash money that husband has a secret Grindr account.
Safest bet in the world, husband is gayer than a unicorn fart
Claiming that someone's homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia.
It's also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit.
Gold medal in mental acrobatics, damn
Women can be sexist and nonwhite people can be racist: being a member of a marginalized group unfortunately doesn’t inherently keep someone from perpetuating the discrimination against said group. It’s absolutely true that a lot of, and definitely the majority, of homophobic people are straight, but a lot of the terror-based homophobia stems from projection.
Unfortunately, being gay isn't a panacea, and one can be both gay and a huge piece of shit.
I get what you're saying.
But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about.
i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay
Well, that's just because
you'reIm an asshole.… i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people?
Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize
That's embarrassing
haha it’s all good
no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia.
Yeah, he may be just a POS, but he seems to think so hard in what looks gay or not... looks like he's hiding.
?? It's blaming a gay person for being homophobic, by what logic does it apply to all of them?
Um, I'd argue that it's blaming the people that drive others to subvert their own tendencies, e.g. the gay-is-icky crowd of which the Christian national movement is a subset.
If gay was truly okay, and we didn't have guys who felt pressured to be alpha masc, then no-one would blink twice when a toddler liked flowers and rainbows.
Cash money, now?
"He generally prefers me to my husband" Whoo boy, I wonder why
She provides baby food. Why wouldn’t the baby prefer her more. Heck I’ll hang out with someone more if they gave me food.
More importantly it sounds like she doesn't judge and criticize everything the son does, at one year old
I am straight, and I have to ask: Are we okay?
i certainly am not okay
(though i don't think it's because i'm straight)
What's bothering you?
gestures vaguely at everything
Yeah
Clearly we are not.
I really hope this is fake.
Is it from reddit? Because there's a 99.99998% chance it's fake if it is
The husbands of some of my acquaintances are exactly like this. While I'm generally repulsed by the term Low Value Male, these are the types of men that I think fit the bill. Manly homophobes crippled by their ingrained toxic masculinity
Reading the post like:
Even if this isn't real there 100% are loads of people who actually think like this
Man some people really should not have kids
Kid put a banana in his mouth. Yeah kids put everything in their mouths! Be glad it's food and not random carpet lint.
Exactly. And everyone knows if a kid puts carpet in his mouth he's a god damn lesbe-ann.
That must be where I went wrong. I put carpet in my mouth and a banana in my ass
Bad husband
No brewskis
That's a divorcin'
I just feel bad that she had to have a kid with the guy to find this out
Ah yes, my childhood. Too bad they failed to genderize me
I genuinely feel sad for people that love in such fear and anger. It sounds exhausting.
I'm gonna go with fake.
I’d say this is fake but I also know people who would think like this
If he likes the mom more than the dad, isn't it a sign he's not gay?
Only a gay baby would feel actual love towards a parent, especially if it's their mom.
This has to be fake, the part about the books just gives it away, with the kid being one year old.
Parents should be reading books to kids from day 1
Wife should return that one to sender.
Fellas, is it gay to be checks notes A LITERAL CHILD!?
!arethestraightsok
corrected: !are_the_straights_ok@lemmy.blahaj.zone