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alaliliiso@casavaga.com to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone – 326 points –
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Whatever makes my dick hard is a woman.

Convince yourself you're "totally straight" while sucking another guy's cock with this one weird trick

Let me tell you about my straight exhusband and his totally not gay guy friend that he would give and get BJs from. It was 100% platonic.

I've got a nonbinary friend who presents somewhat feminine, and they always say that anyone who finds them attractive is gay by default. So I guess what I'm saying is I'm not totally straight

Wouldn't finding an nb person attractive be hetero attraction? Since they're of a different gender?

I guess it depends how you define it, i feel like most people define hetero as being exclusively attracted to people of the opposite sex than you

They're using the (Greek-derived) scientific definition of "hetero" (i.e. different) vs "homo" (i.e. same). By those definitions, any cisgender + non-binary pairing would technically be heterosexual.

Yeah I define myself as heterosexual cos I'm not attracted to people of the same gender as me. I'm not non-binary so being attracted to/sleeping with an enby person is not gay, at least according to how I define my own sexuality.

I'm a gay guy so I'll answer this from that perspective: moreso men? I'm attracted to guys along with the occasional non-binary person or very butch lesbian (i.e. my attraction to them felt identical to how I'm attracted to men). Sometimes I'm attracted to a masc guy, sometimes it's a fem guy. Sometimes it's neither. I've been into every body type except bears (though including cubs).

Basically: if my social perception of you is that of a man despite your own gender identity, then I might be attracted to you. I apologize if my horniness assumes your gender

I like boobs and pussy

That's the definition of "straight guy" right?

Not if you're a woman. Or if the boobs/pussy belong to a dude

I always figured straight or gay is related to sex, not gender. So a pre-transition trans man or a post-transition trans woman would count

Would you date a trans guy

pre-transition? Sure

I don't like dicks though

And it would probably be difficult with me going "I love your boobs" and they're always like "I hate my boobs"

That's so strange. You're just attracted to people's body parts?

Yeah It's called sexual attraction at least meet the bare minimum

That's how it works for the vast majority of people.

Not like personality doesn't play a role. But certain body part combinations are a requirement.

Pretty weird

Not really, it's pretty key to the propagation of the species to find certain genitals and sexual traits attractive. Those that don't notice them or care about them are outliers in humanity.

Outliers in humanity? Fuck off

Yes, and that's not a bad thing. Anyone outside of the average in a trait is an outlier. Being 7 feet tall makes one an outlier, being a genius makes one an outlier, etc...

Not sure why you're so offended.

I'm asexual so this is very alien to me. I generally associate genitals with violence because of past trauma

Is their preference really any more arbitrary than the preferences sapiosexuals or demisexuals have? It sounds like they probably have other traits that may make someone more or less attractive, they just have a minimum requirement for a certain body form for them to begin having attraction. That isn’t so different when compared to a sapiosexual who requires a high intellect before they can begin being more or less attracted based on other traits.

TL;DR: All preferences are weird, no need to call anyone out on their specific ones :)

Small clarification: Demisexuality isn't a preference. They don't feel any sexual attraction before an emotional connection is formed.

Not OP, and not disagreeing with you, but I think it's also fair to point out that "having boobs and a vagina" isn't always preference for straight people either.

Some people are just hardwired to not feel sexual attraction unless the other person fits their needs, I think? Just like how most gay men don't feel sexual attraction to the aforementioned qualities.

Tits and a vag to shove my dick in. Christ this is cringe.

Romantically and sexually? Women. Aesthetically/interpersonally? Both.

Both, and only both. Never just one or the other.

Woman. I wouldn't go as far as to say manly, but definitely not femininity.

Bad bitches is the only thing that I like 🤷

My ex really loved that song and thought it was so deep. She'd say shit like "I just love how he doesn't have a type you know? Like if your bad it doesn't matter" but I was just confused because a bad bitch is a type. And it wasn't her.