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Stamets@lemmy.world to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone – 687 points –
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Wait is this supposed to be a trans sub? TIL

Not trans exclusive, just a lot of trans people here (including me)

I learned when I went back to college that autistic gay and trans people are just the people I get along best with

Trans people tend to often be neurodivergent in my experience.

I'm also cis, just love the memes.

Came for the memes, stayed for the inclusivity and positivity. Peace and love to all LGBTQIA+ memesters!

Now it's my turn to see you.

I see you.

This is me seeing you.

Lies, you wouldn't be here if you didn't have at least a fraction of The Gay

It's kind of funny in a way but in my life I've had at least 5 men confused by how I'm "not gay."

I don't fit any stereotype so I haven't the slightest idea what makes people think that. I even had one creep that would come into the store I worked at years ago and ask "have they converted you yet?" (Both the managers were gay.)

I've quite literally never received any attention like that from women in my life.... I wish I was gay! I'd apparently have a much easier time instead of being single for the last almost decade now lol

I understand the whole "I can't simply change who I am" but from the opposite end. I'm cis and straight, there's nothing I can "change" to no be grossed out by the idea of sleeping with another man lol I even tried watching gay porn when I was 19-20ish just to see and yeah... Nope. Not my jam, which is kinda funny since I love asses, just not man ass lol

"have they converted you yet?"

"Do y'all still get toaster ovens for a conversation or have they updated to air fryers these days" is probably the only response I'd give.

I wish I didn't have stupid social anxiety so I could actually think during conversations, I'd love to be able to have those kinds of quips lol

I've quite literally never received any attention like that from women in my life...

Maybe they think you're gay

Lol damnit! You might be on to something...

This is gonna sound like a #humblebrag but same. I've had drunken gay dudes thank me for existing because they found me that attractive. I know a decent amount of women find me attractive but it's nowhere near the same degree.

My wife is highly amused by it, but it's like damn, I'd be absolutely killing it if I was at all into dudes.

I don't even know what it is with me though. I look like Peewee Herman fell out of the ugly tree, hit every branch on the way down removing the hair from my head, got coverd in sap, then fell into a pile of hair that got stuck to my body and then the impact compressed me to 5'6 lmao

Although at that time I did have a full head of hair that was shoulder length lol

I'm bi or pan or something along those lines and I don't fit stereotypes either. When I came out to people at 17, the usual reaction was disbelief then followed up by questioning (being asked how did I know?) basically people were asking how sexually active I was. So now I wear pride bracelets or necklaces to show people I am out and proud.

I even tried watching gay porn when I was 19-20ish just to see and yeah... Nope.

Yeah I did the same thing at that age and was absolutely transfixed. Felt weird about it though, so I didn't try again for a while.

Of course it's obvious in hindsight lmao

I even tried watching gay porn when I was 19-20ish just to see and yeah… Nope

I've been interested in a few men IRL, but gay porn does nothing for me. I think it's in part because "bodybuilder" isn't really my type.

Can confirm: just got my results back and it turns out I have something like 20-30% The Gay. This sub knew before I did!

Really? Can anyone help me check? I need to make sure.

i am too, memes are good, vibes are friendly, people are nice, happy to be here

I did not know this was a trans space, tbh. Thank you for entertaining us cishets!

The blahaj is ours now, we dibs'd it. Get your own shark. (You can play with ours too but you have to be nice.)

Me too, I just lurk every trans friendly sub to find a switch waifu. Yuzu not dead!

I love this community, I could have sworn this comment would have received at least some backlash. Love love love you guys! Keep searching like me, true love will find you in the end! And it’s already here, in you and around you!

Wait, we need to be gay to be here?

Cis is the “opposite” of trans, like gay is the “opposite” of straight. That said it wouldn’t hurt to be a little gayer.

🫡 I will find some gay shit to do tout de suite

I am joinking this

i am confused

Joink as in stealing (I have no fucking clue how to spell that maybe it should be yoink idk?)

ooooooh lmao damn there was a time in my youth where that was a common part of my vocabulary but Id forgotten. Man I miss halo reach