Is it just me or did anyone else became a more avid poster since joining lemmy?

SoLowChoLowRider@lemmy.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world – 1871 points –

On reddit I was a lurker that posted like once or twice a year, but ever since joining lemmy I've started posting multiple times a day.

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Yeah, but I'm still doing it on purpose to help the community grow. Somebody's gotta fill this place with content, and at the end of the day that's our job.

Normally I'm more of a commenter exclusively unless I need the services of a specific community. (video game question usually) But the Lemmy project has sent me digging for all the best youtube stuff I've seen in basically the past decade and then finding the community to shove it in.

Same here. I have a 9 year account on Reddit with only a few hundred posts and karma; by the time I found something worth posting about anything I posted would either drown out in the noise or essentially already be posted.

the worst part is you'd almost always end commenting in a thread that gets deleted due to rules etc if you tried to get ahead of the curve and comment in a brand new post. I'm way more active here because I'm trying to help build the community.

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when it became about points instead of sharing people started gaming the system. we are posting to share, most others making it to any level of visibility are actively gaming the system.

i did some tests around it a few years back, getting notice with derivative gaming is easy but it just drowns out any real content. Only certain power users are usually allowed to the tops of pages, youll see a lot of the same names on the front page over and over.

clear sign there is no hope and discourse isint real anymore

I think the poll numbers will act the same way to moderate what people say. I don’t think total karma was important, it’s seeing a community you’re in agree/disagree with you, and all the dopamine/negativity that comes from that.

the challenge is keeping that around the goal of posting engaging content rather than a race to the bottom for popularity points.

Coming from someone with 2 million + link karma on Reddit, thanks. I burned myself out a while back. Just too busy now too. You're good people.

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There's also the fact that on Reddit any interesting article was probably already posted:)

Yea, like 500 times too. I really like the feature on here that checks around for other places the same video might've been posted.

Like, I shared a vid to Video Essays on LotR theme composition, y'know, niche but not too-niche, and saw it had already been posted in basically every LotR sub. But cool, I posted it anyway cuz it wasn't in that sub yet and it was good content. But it got like two upvotes (probably me and the mod) and I didn't have to really wonder why--oversaturation. Nice feature, big fan of it.

I'm in the same boat, I feel like I've posted here more lately than most of my reddit life.

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Still a lurker tbh, aside from this comment

We need you, too. As long as you're upvoting and downvoting, you're helping curate content.

Yeah, they're actually the backbone of the community. We're not the power that keeps the trolls at bay, they are.

Plus lemmy only counts users who have posted or commented as an active user. So making at least one comment is helpful to gain traction.

Oh I didn't know that! Thanks for mentioning it, TIL. I'm glad so many others are also trying their best to be active like this, I'm really optimistic so far about the community building around here if folks keep this up.

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I am but I'm very quickly finding out I have nothing to contribute.

I'm the most boring human alive.

I'm trying. so. hard. to. Help!

You should share the thing that you're most terrified to share with others and i bet its not boring... for e.g.... maybe you like to eat boogers... i am sure lots of people will be like... holy hell man... and they will be repulsed ... but it won't be boring. Then you could start a niche community of booger eaters and this community could share stories and recipes... and that sir or miss... is how you contribute instead of lurking.

Anyone want to creat a community about shameless farting in public or at the workplace? Or is this just me?

Lmao i could see that becomming a popular community. I would love reading peoples funny farting in public stories

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Look... We're just here to boost numbers until the interesting people show up.

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Haha. We all feel the same way. Not afraid to share our thoughts, doubtful our thoughts have value.

Your wrong you have plenty to contribute even if it's just your opinion on posts. And I appreciate your efforts to engage with the community.

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Agreed. It’s a smaller community and easier to feel seen. I’ve probably already posted more here than I ever have on Reddit.

I just like that I can post an honest comment and not worry about being Well-Ackshually'd to death. Sometimes I'd be knee-deep in Wikipedia fact-checking and suddenly realize, "This reddit reply is not worth the personal effort I am putting into it."

Well actually (;D), that can happen here... unfortunately.

But I get what you're saying. Lemmy is still small enough that conversations are more about talking to another person rather than being a performative thing for everyone else in a large subreddit.

Yesterday someone demanded me to give dates on when Global Warming would start causing increases in food prices and so I was on wikipedia and checking sources... and why an I doing this shit?

So it still happens but it does seem less frequent here.

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Or "I'm too late to the post. The front page algo refreshes too fast, and nobody will read my comment anyway."

This was my main reason not following most of the biggest subs like askreddit. Even if it's an interesting question, by the time I see it it's just not worth replying anymore because no one is going to read it anyways.

I commented much more on reddit 10+ years ago when the comment sections were smaller and the front page didn't refresh so quickly.

They changed the algorithm to turn over the front page more per day, and it sucked the life out of the comment section.

For real, on Reddit an 8 hour old post and nobody will see your comment.

Here I can comment on a post 2 days old and still get replies.

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Right?! Like, posting a reply that's a legitimate correction is fine, whatever. But people constantly post slight technicality corrections (that are usually 75% of the time incorrect or misleading) on reddit. It's so annoying especially when you've been on reddit long enough that you can tell from a parent comment when people are gonna "well actually" and exactly what they're gonna say because it's all been said 200x before.

/rant lol

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Always felt unwelcome posting anything on reddit. Lemmy is new enough and filled with people who are nice enough to make feel like I wont get yelled at for commenting or posting.

I can yell at you if you miss the reddit experience. $10 tip required or exposure on a 10mil blog

For 8.99 I'll tell you why a mistake in your comment means you're the dumbest person alive.

Pretty much how I feel. It's like the worst of Reddit stayed behind and were the settlers setting off to build a new world.

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I used to be an avid participant on reddit, but haven't been for a long time. Now on Lemmy, I feel like participating again.

I think it's because it's on us to make this a great place now. Like, we can't just migrate and be silent. Or migrate and be assholes. We come here, we gotta participate positively, so I'm just doing my part.

I feel that... I just wish I had something interesting to post or say lol.

Oddly enough, I found "being interesting" to be a skill you sort of have to try to learn and pick up. It's not like...something you're born with. You kind of actively learn how to "do the thing". I've been a wallflower most of my life, but slowly started to pick up tricks as I got older.

I found that asking other people about themselves usually kickstarts a conversation. People love to talk about themselves. Then once they reply, you see if you can find a thread or something in what they said to tug on to further the convo.

Being really into some topic or another as a hobby or profession also can give you something interesting, if you take something you know about that subject and put it in front of other people who are unfamiliar with the hobby.

Example from one of my random niche interests:

Did you guys know that honey bees aren't male/female based on having XX or XY genes? Bees that are male come from unfertilized eggs, and have only half the chromosomes the female bees have. Their chromosomes are unpaired, whereas in other animals they're paired. Basically, male bees have no father, they only have a mother.

Love it! That's actually my main party trick, it's either asking a whole ton of questions and if that doesn't work I try to steer the conversation into the approximately 30 minutes of material I have on birds. I used to be a crazy nightmare in uber pools, I think

This is exactly how I feel, on Reddit it does not matter if I comment or engage at all, Reddit is what it is at this point. Here at Lemmy I feel way more compelled to post simply if only to keep the platform active. I hope others feel the same and can add more value to lemmy than I can.

Right? When the community has to work towards a goal together, everyone does a little better.

Posting is essential to get this community up and running so thanks!

I think that as a result of the size of reddit, it was unlikely to have engagement when you commented, and it was common to get unkind engagement if it did happen. It’s nice to have a fresh start, but since there’s less of us, it is also a much more intimate experience.

You're absolutely right. Often times it also didn't feel like a conversation; rather, it was just a bunch of one liners. I'm also suspicious that there are a lot of bots commenting as well. It just didn't feel organic. In any case, I have wondered about your point regarding the current size of the community and how it lends itself to a more intimate experience. I'm hoping that with growth we can keep that going. Do you think it's possible?

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I am a lurker for life, probably, but I will try to be better for Lemmy, to help the site grow.

I mostly lurk too. Unless I've had a drink, which is now.

True, I feel the same energy. I am way more connected to Lemmy than I ever was to reddit

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What I like about Lemmy is, that you don't need to be one of the first comments to interact with people. On Reddit you would easily be buried somewhere at the bottom but most Lemmy posts I see have a really nice comment section. People are more likely to see your comment because the posts don't have hundreds of comments but there are still enough comments to start a conversation. I also love that I can have conversations stretched over days. I don't browse Lemmy often. I don't need to feel bad when I answer something a day later.

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For me the main factor was replies slanted extremely mean on Reddit, whereas here it's only been polite conversation so far.

I'm perfectly willing to talk on a platform where I'm not getting death threats because I didn't like a videogame or whatever.

HEY FUCK YOU, MAN

(Just kidding, I’m glad you’re here and that I am also!)

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this is me returning to form, as algorithms put me into a hole engagement on my posts went to crap, i stopped posting at this level over 10 years ago now.

having a proper forum again, Im posting like I used to, my google fu is once again being shared with the community.

whats interesting is reddits algo would lead you to believe what you are saying or posting has no value. i come here, and started just posting as normal, expecting nothing, surprised but also reminded of how algos work when i found normal levels of engagement again.

Algorithm driven social media stopped working for the interests of its users a long time ago.

It skews interactions into the parasocial. Massive groups looking at one thing, everyone scremaing, no-one except a few being heard.

Instead, social media should be many smaller groups looking at and discussing many different smaller things. Reddit still had some of that, if you went looking for it, places where everyone gets heard by at least someone.

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Yep! Since it is a smaller community, it feels less like screaming into the void. There's a good chance people will see a comment, even if it isn't made in the first hour or so.

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I've posted here in the past week or two more than I posted on Reddit in the past 11 years. I think it's the smaller more engaged community that encourages me to do it. Comments don't just get lost in a sea of jokes and grammar bots.

I feel exactly the same way. I even mod a community now, which is definitely not something I thought I would ever really get into on reddit. The community here is much more motivating, I feel like my contributions matter, and I don't need to be self conscious about if what I post is "good enough" or whatever.

I'd comment lots on reddit, but rarely post. On Lemmy, I post! Even started a community!

Not to that extent, but yea.

Maybe because posting here seems less like shouting into the void? I get replies to most of my posts and comments. Way more engagement.

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Absolutely! I'm posting multiple times a day some days and commenting a lot more. It feels a bit more like you get noticed but also doesn't feel like you're going to get your head bitten off just for speaking. And you can use emojis here 👍👋

That was the thing with Reddit, go with the hive mind or be downvoted into oblivion. It will be the same here eventually, human nature won't change with a new platform.

I’ve always been a lurker, but I am trying to change. However, I don’t want to comment for the sake of just commenting as well.

I have a similar philosophy, I tended to be a bit more active as a commentor than a poster but if I don't have much to add to a thread then extra comments are just adding noise.

Same boat but really I think it depends on context. A serious discussion or someone looking for specific technical advice on something then I totally agree. Shitposts and silliness serve an important role though, anyone can wade in, it’s a useful ice breaker and for the lurky types who maybe need to build some confidence just posting anything (without being obnoxious) should be encouraged.

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Definitely true for me. I was a pure lurker on Reddit. Now with Lemmy I try to engage a lot more. This place needs to come to life (and I feel like we're doing well, so far).

Yes! I couldn't agree more, before on reddit I didn't participate in any discussion, pretty much a lurker. I enjoy discussions a lot here! They are way better.

Barely ever posted on Reddit, but have already outdone the total post count here. Haven't posted in a while though, mostly because of post-work brain melt

I’m still pretty new here, but I'm finding myself being more encouraged to post out of a feeling of community, like I belong more here, and desire to see this succeed. I think they kind of go hand in hand.

Ditto! I’m much less self conscious posting here, but have just been busy lately and not felt the energy for posting.

I've posted more but I'm still mostly a lurker. I have enjoyed reading the actual discussion here. The comments at reddit got to be so formulaic and the same across posts, it's refreshing to see actual thought and effort go into making comments.

There's a common understanding that if you want more activity you need more activity to attract more people. Its a feedback loop that requires engagement. We lurkers know that the best way to help Lemmy grow to a critical mass is to temporarily become active for the sake of fucking over reddit.

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It's like jump starting the engine. We need a spark

The same happened here. More than 16 years on Reddit, and most of them as a not-very-active lurker. But here? I'm commenting every day.

As a FOSS guy, here I feel at home. From the community to the community.

Yep, I feel more comfortable interacting here than on reddit, maybe it's because of the way less toxicity here.

Same. It also doesn't feel like I'm shouting into a void on here. It feels more like a community and less like a contest to get up votes.

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Idk i was that mid-level commenter, rare poster on Reddit. There were subs i commented a dozen or more times a day while others i subbed purely to read what others post.

What i like about Lemmy, which is what i liked about Mastodon, is that its not flooded with constant noise. A smaller community means far less garbage.

I had the same lurker status back on reddit and definitely feel more inclined to post here. I think part of it is that for at least right now, individual comments really are setting up the success of lemmy so it feels good to be a part of that. Also, back on reddit those hardcore karma farmers dominated the threads. You had to find niche subreddits for comments to feel like they mattered...everything else was a "why bother" feeling.

Me! It just took a while to find my place here.

I'm pretty sure I already have more posts on Lemmy than my entire 10 years on Reddit 🤣

Can't really explain why but I'm way more active here. I think I just really want Lemmy to succeed.

It's the novelty mostly, plus the fact that smaller communities are more fun to engage in. The same thing happened back on Voat.

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i'm more interested in participating since i know what i do and say here wont be swallowed by a black hole.

Wont be swallowed up yet... Let's see how it goes with the reddit exodus

I’ve started commenting more often. I don’t really have much to share/talk about atm, but commenting here is great because there is a significantly reduced chance of someone replying to my comment just to try and 1-UP my ass.

This is my first comment on Lemmy! I like the smaller community. It seems more welcoming.

lemmy made me feels like a little kid with new toy and i want to see this grows

You have to add kindling to build the fire, and thats why I try not to only lurk here.

It's absolutely more work to not just lurk, but it's way more fulfilling.

Maybe it's because in Lemmy you're not gonna be "late" compared to in Reddit

For me it’s because I want to do my small bit to help get people off Reddit, by seeing more active communities here

I’m really confident Lemmy can be the future, so I’m being as active as possible while it’s small.

To everyone reading this: if you see a post with 0 comments, even a few days old, leave one. You could spark a conversation.

Definitely. I'm much more likely to comment when I'm not prepared for 70% of the readers to interpret what I write the worst possible way on purpose lol.

It'll be a scale thing, though. For one, most instances have a human-manned review process. And for two, we have low enough users that communities don't homogenise into echo chambers as easily. This will change as any particular instance (or Lemmy's federated instances) gain more users.

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This place reminds me of old school Reddit, before they started trying to turn it into a traditional social media platform. I love it!

Exactly. It's janky and doesn't always work. But it's not riddled with ads and echo chambers. What a breath of fresh air.

Yep, exactly! Not the same tired obvious joke repeated over and over in comments. Karma doesn't matter, so no karma whores. Just people talking and sharing info - how it should be. I've been going through and trying to find my favorite app for Lemmy (Android). So far Liftoff is the clear winner, but there's still a handful left to checkout. Have you found any decent apps?

personally using jerboa, but i haven't tried liftoff yet. thanks for the tip!

I love that a service that isn't making a buck off of us gets levels of engagement that for-profit social networks would kill for.

This is happening because:

  • Novelty, because new is fun. This will go down over time.
  • The most passionate users are more likely to be early adopters. More casual users are coming.
  • Smaller network means your content is less likely to be covered before. This factor will go down over time.
  • Fediverse encourages multiple related communities, which means your specific contributions are more likely to be seen by other users.
  • Lack of bots/astroturfing leads to more positive interactions. Bots will likely increase over time.

Therefore, I expect engagement will go down over time, but I am hopeful it will reach a higher point of stability because the fediverse design seems better at getting more varied content seen by its users, and it makes it harder for a small group of people or posts to dominate the discussion space.

PS: Anybody know how to add a space after the last bullet in a list?

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Yes and no.

When I'm at my PC, yes I did become more active.

On mobile, I'm waiting for a better app like Relay and Sync to finally make Lemmy usable. Jerboa is barely-functional even with the latest update which finally added UI improvements, at the cost of making the app unusable with instances running on older versions of Lemmy and a slew of other glitches that make certain tabs unviewable.

I ended up uninstalling jerboa pretty quickly; Connect for Lemmy has been pretty good for me, closest to rif I've found interface wise, and I haven't really had much trouble with it functionally.

I'm very surprised by how much more I'm commenting, and I've even made a few posts!

I guess it comes with the feeling of exploring and establishing a new platform. Having this shared feeling towards reddit unites is, and this new platform gives us a new home.

I had a Reddit account ~10y ago. I was only a lurker in the days before the exodus. This feels like a real community.

Frist psot! /s

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I became more active here because I don't feel like I'm contributing to a corporation. This is an open source software run by people who are just doing it because they like doing it.

I'm still deciding if I'll become a more active poster. I'd like to see this place grow.

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I'm posting, but I have no idea what I'm doing. I don't think I 'get' Lemmy. Do all the dozens of instances have their own versions of communities and conversations? What's the connection? 🤷

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Yep. Haven't been so active on Reddit. It feels kinda great.

I’m in this boat. I just want to see lemmy succeed as a legit Reddit alternative.

Edit: WefWef has made me feel right at home, coming from the Apollo app. If you haven’t tried it, check it out! (https://wefwef.app)

It's nice because I always wondered what it was like being one of the early redditors (we've all seen those "when everything was better back in my days" comments), and it's as if I got chance at a magic Internet Reset button. Feeling that excitement that first got me into reddit, as I'm browsing and learning about the fediverse. Love it.

Echoing what’s already been said here but just voicing that the same is true for me. It feels people actually read and engage with my posts, and what I have to say won’t be drowned out by the masses.

Part of the reason I think it’s ok to have slight barrier to entry that the fediverse has in general.

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I'm feeling some of that early internet charm here. That might be part of why I'm a little more active. Still a lurker through and through.

Not really... yet. While I enjoy the memes and stuff I miss my smaller niche communities. While some subs the I was part of on reddit were created over here it seems that they are pretty dead and not even the creators/mods care about them. At the moment I don't have the time and energy to build something up from the ground... but I'm gonna stay and do my part!

I’m more of a lurker as well, but I want lemmy to be successful so I’m trying to learn to be more active

Been on the same boat, as for me been lurking for quite sometime mainly because too lazy to login and felt not worth to post/comment. I think the main difference here now is we felt obligated to post/comment because we want lemmy to succeed. Simply speaking I think our post/comment here value more than in reddit which will probably get buried down the thread.

It could be the "shiny new thing" syndrome, the majority of people here (me included) might be just riding the "high" of joining in. Gotta wait and see how we'll be in 3+ months

I think a smaller community at the moment might have something to do with it too. On Reddit if you didn't catch a post early most comments were buried.

Right now it feels like you can actually have discussions again.

Yes all my comments are non relevant nonsense but I'm having fun.

I find myself more willing to comment/participate now. I'm not sure if it's because I feel that I am getting in from the "beginning" or if it's just because the community feels more "real", but there is definitely a difference from Reddit.

I guess it's because this is something you want to actively grow, as opposed to being a drop in the ocean back at Reddit

I rarely posted on Reddit, mostly because I would try to find a conversation already in progress instead of making my own post. Also, my posts rarely caught that much traction. I commented a lot more frequently, several times a week. I'm still fairly infrequent, mostly because in my early internet years I posted A LOT of cringe on Facebook/Myspace so I tend to be a little more measured in my internet footprint now.

Agreed. I've been posting way more frequently than in Reddit. Although admittedly, the more engaging topics are there. But we're barely a month into rexxit so the leaps this platform have made is impressive enough.

It's nice to post in a place that has enthusiasm, rather than a place that's become a rote content-mill

With much smaller user base, one can actually get their posts/replies seen. Big difference.

I think I find myself participating more generally, now that I’m not necessarily frequenting specific subreddits

I think smaller communities are more inviting. For me it's a combination of wanting Lemmy to succeed, now that Reddit has begun it's downward spiral, and feeling more involved in communities. Though I have only just created my account, so only time will tell if I continue to be active.

I spent years on Apollo and never even made an account, would just infinite scroll at work. Made an account on Lemmy and already feel like I’m more engaged

Trying. Lemmy needs content and commenters are a big part of Reddit.

I've been on that grind too 💪. Mostly because work has been really slow so I have nothing better to do.

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Not much yet but been lurking a fuck ton. It was a lot easier then I thought it was gonna be getting use to this. I didn't even had to do what I did when I first joined reddit! I had a damn Digg UI addon for Reddit for like 2 months til I settled on old.reddit.

It's hard to get noticed on Reddit (unless you make a typo!)

Unless you're the first to post on a new topic that goes on to be popular, then no matter what you say you get read and gain karma. If you comment on something a few hours old, nobody ever reads it.

You're one voice in a city. Whereas here, we're a village. Less anonymous, friendlier, easier to get talking to your neighbour.

Well this feels fresh and new, and also people want to experiment with this new platform. Pretty foreseeable.

Gotta help seed the content so newcomers have something to look at. I've been uploading game clips and the like to the relevant subreddits communities (wow, I really just did make this mistake without thinking and only went back to correct it minutes later; shows how used I am to the old place) to help build the initial content base.

That, and the place genuinely does seem just a bit friendlier than Reddit. That may change when the number of users gets bigger, but I'm at least enjoying it for now.

We all should. That's how we turn this platform successful over reddit. I've also noticed communities don't suck as much (for now), I could be wrong but I don't seem to see so much toxicity like I do on reddit nowadays

I've never really been a poster to be honest - not on reddit and not so far on lemmy - but I'm definitely mroe active with comments here. I'd like to make more posts but honestly I don't know I'm that great at creating OC. I think in my total of just over ten years on reddit, I maybe made four or five posts?

I try, but then usually give up when it fails to submit 3 times

Try making an account on another server, maybe one of the smaller ones. My first was on lemmy.world, but on this new account on aussie.zone everything is loading much faster and I'm having no issues when it comes to commenting.

I feel bad when I see people have duplicate replies. Their duplicates get downvoted and I've seen people act demeaning as if the repeated comments were intentional. Meanwhile Lemmy and its apps are developing so bugs are going to happen.

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I really like the default active sorting keeping discussions in older threads alive for longer. The comment sorting also makes it easier to join discussions later on :)

Definitely replying more instead of just lurking.

I’m thinking it’s a combination of

  1. my perception that I can expect a reply if I comment
  2. My curiosity about Lemmy
  3. I find more post relatable (probably because I am learning alongside others about Lemmy)

I would add onto this, for me, that I don't have to worry about the "hive mind" effect just yet. One thing I disliked there was the same comment / post could have a drastically different outcome depending on how it is received the first hour or so of it's existence.

i feel less desire to troll here. Just feels mean and horrible.

I am more of a sarcastic commenter. Made a couple of posts though. However, I am upvoting a lot more stuff here as I never really upvoted posts on that other site that hates 3rd party stuff. I want to make sure this stuff actually works and people don’t go crawling back to that site that makes you Spez out.

I think actually feeling like you are being seen is a big factor for me. I felt buried in Reddit and so far this community just feels right. I really do hope it stays that way.

Yeah, I found this to be true. I’m a lurker on reddit but a poster on lemmy. I am also actively brainstorming of more topics to create to help engagement in lemmy. I guess it’s because most of us want to see this to succeed and make it a viable competitor (and eventual replacement as the defacto front page of the internet) to reddit.

yeah people have mentioned already I've seen as a reason. This is because of active/hot, where on reddit the top comment was top because it was highest voted, there's something different going on with sorting here.

I think I've posted more comments on Lemmy than I ever did on Reddit. And I joined Reddit back around 2010.

Yeah, -- with Lemmy being a smaller community it's much more interactive than just commenting/posting and it being buried. last time I posted/commented on reddit was like around 3-4 years ago, so always been a lurker, going to change now with Lemmy.

I lurked reddit for more than a decade and maybe posted 5 times. I hit that my first day here I think. Not sure what the difference is... I guess the smaller user base makes me feel like I can actually engage in a conversation with someone rather than just have my post disappear into the thousands already on a post

Just doing my part to test the system. See what clicks, maybe it'll get better with my humble reply, one at a time

I had Reddit for almost 10 years, yet in the <1 month that I've started using alternatives I've already posted/commented more. Not sure why it it feels more enjoyable engaging in discusison on the Reddit alternatives, but it's probably the lower user levels creating a nicer environment.

I think that as a result of the size of reddit, it was unlikely to have engagement when you commented, and it was common to get unkind engagement if it did happen. It’s nice to have a fresh start, but since there’s less of us, it is also a much more intimate experience.

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Posting and commenting on Lemmy feels a lot better, like a breath of fresh air. The last few years on Reddit got progressively more combative as certain types of people found their soap box there. Literally any comment could turn into a toxic political spitting match when the topic had nothing to do with politics. Probably a good mix of trolls and bots in there to incite the toxicity among the actual people who bought it. It’s amazing how many people actively defend Reddit’s ability to milk their user base and I think that says a lot about the community too.

Also always feels easier to get in on the ground floor of a new community before things are settled. Things get clique-y and stale after a long while. I think most people who have played an MMO (or other mostly online game) from launch versus playing an MMO after it’s been established a while can relate to that feeling.

I just hope we see more of the niche communities come over. A number of smaller communities decided to go to Discord only, which is a fine chat platform but that’s not a Reddit or forum replacement.

My thoughts exactly. It feels like its early enough the culture is still being molded and can be less annoying than reddit was.

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Reddit mods censored a lot of content both posts and comments. That was part of the reason reddit was not a positive experience and became a echo chamber. Lemmy appears to be more like the old internet where there were a diverse community of ideas and views.

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Was a lurker on most subreddits, a lot of things I wanted to comment likely had been said so I would just upvote them. Whilst right now (still getting my head round the instances), I feel more inclined to comment when there are low comment volumes.

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I absolutely did, at least for commenting. Partly because I want to create traffic for Lemmy, and partly because it feels just... Nicer here. More genuine interaction, less quippy one liners or insults.

In a way I feel kind of responsible to be more active to promote the community more. I want this to succeed and it won't without content, so I probably will end up being a lot more active than I used to be on reddit too

Not yet, but in Reddit in recent years I mostly posted in niche little places for interests I didn't know there was a community for. I'm just hoping they will migrate or evolve over here because I found so many fun little hobbies because of the organic finding of new subs that Reddit seemed to foster.

And I have a 4mo old baby so that limits my time too. Every day though there is more and more, so I'm hoping I'll be a contributor to help it grow soon!

I think lemmy.world (or other lemmy instances you are ok of) is the place for me to learn how to communicate with others.

Before then, I never post and comment anything on Facebook and Twitter. Now I comment a lot here.

I don't know if it's just me but it reminds me of early Reddit, without all the Karma whoring

Here you can actually have your main page set to All without most of it being crap and can actually make a thought through post in a generic forum with a high likelihood that it gets engaged with in a positive way.

In Reddit you had to stick to browsing on Subscribed and the generic communities are swamped with karma-farming low-effort today's-consensus-following posts or posts trying to start flamewars.

Over there I pretty much only contributed in one or two highly specialized forums, here I participate in the general community.

If anything, the opposite.

The algorithm knew me. Losing the algorithm is like losing a friend... the dickhead that always asked for money.

I feel like I was always getting served up the same thing over and over. The randomness of Lemmy is refreshing.

Couldn't agree more with this. I know what I want to read about and can go find it on my own, love getting stuff in my feed I'd never go looking for on my own.

I haven't been, unfortunately. I joined around a week ago and this is my first comment. It seems I'm just as much of a lurker here as I was on Reddit. I suppose this is as good a time as any to change that and try to become more active.

I?m posting less overall, I think. I'm used to interactng in specific communities that haven't hit critical mass yet.

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Trying to break the habit, discussion content isn't gonna start itself otherwise

I haven't posted but I've sure commented more times in the past 48 hours than I'd posted on reddit in probably the last year.

I'm loving the engagement I'm seeing. And the fact you're here means we have more in common that the vast majority of users I interacted with on reddit even when I did interact on reddit.

Yeah, I post more. Gotta do my part to make this community alive.

Agreed. Maybe it's because aside from such a welcoming community, a lot of us shared this collective experience coming from Reddit. It oddly feels at home here.

I have already written more comments here than I ever did on reddit. I want lemmy to succeed and it needs even us lurkers to do that. It ain't much--but I am commenting ;)

Yeah, I've been posting a lot more on the websites I've switched to. Just want to help build the community, ya know?

I like to say things on the internet

Same. I'm just as much of a talky talkerson here as I was on Reddit. It does feel different here, because it's new and exciting....and its a functional platform lol. But I commented consistently every day on reddit for years. If I was taking a shit, blowing time somewhere, or waiting for something, I was there chatting it up. Overall nothing has changed for me in terms of participation frequency. I'm gonna fuck off here too.

Definitely I am more willing to post and comment, since reddit fail down. :)

Finding it way easier to engage and comment. Don't have to wade through thousands of shit comments on Lemmy. Loving it!

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Well I'm just new here. I posted a lot on Reddit. But I have to say, I'm running across some new forums (or whatever they're called here) at least one or two a day with hugely interesting discussion. Subscribe subscribe subscribe...I thought my Reddit interest list was pretty solid.

Ah now that I finally figured out how to comment maybe I can join this trend

Well yeah I'm currently posting all oc things i made and posted on Reddit to contribute to Lenny so that people are encouraged to join

And i also got a few gigabytes of content I could repost, too.

I don't, tbh I'm still trying to get a feel for the liftoff app and it just doesn't feel as easy as boost and sometimes it's kinda buggy. I also don't know what to post

I commented on reddit a lot, many times a day for many years. After the latest bullshit I had no qualms about dropping it like a hot potato. Bye bye, not going back. The future of social media is decentralized.

I havent posted as much here, yet... but I love Lemmy like I love mastodon. I feel like I can have real conversations with real people-- which is something that has been severely lacking on the internet for years.

Yes I’ve definitely posted more here than Reddit. The only thing that keeps me from posting more is performance issues. There have been a few times when I wrote a response but the post button just spins and eventually I give up.

It's actually the other way around here... on reddit, i often found silly arguments I'd end up getting involved in and it'd end up taking so much of my time with stupid stressful bickering. Here, i mostly see sensible discussion, and any points i want to make are already being thoughtfully discussed, so there's no need for me to wade in.

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The interactions feel more authentic here. Sometimes I would read a single comment chain where multiple people were talking about separate subjects and somehow still having a conversation. It made my head hurt.

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I'm for sure posting more in the communities that I really like and those that I want to see succeed.

I figure that the more we all interact, within reason, the more everything will grow.

Definitely posting more, i feel like on reddit it could too easily get a bit aggressive sometimes whereas, whilst people are disagreeing in comments on lemmy, it is a nicer tone. Less intimidating.

That and the volume of messages (lower) makes it feel less intimidating for me.

Because it's new and everyone is still enjoying the "Lemmy good, Plebbit bad" mentality/circlejerk out of the current events we are having.

I didn't make posts all that often on reddit, but I definitely commented a fair amount. The problem I've got with lemmy right now is there's not as much discussion about stuff I'm interested in, so I'm mainly just looking at All instead of keeping to my subscribed communities.

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I was mostly a lurker on Reddit, but the smaller community on Lemmy has made it so others actually see my comments. On Reddit they would just get lost in the thousands of other comments.

There are definite upsides to having a smaller community.

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I didn't post on Reddit because I felt no desire to give free content to a business making money from me. Although lots of people really felt like it was a community, I didn't. I thought it was like a theme park - dressed up like a town in order to make you feel like you weren't inside a store. This seems like a real community, at least at the moment.

I am exactly the same. I have posted here more times than I did on Reddit in total.

There is just something ‘nice’ about being here. I love that there are region/area specific sites you can join and go from there. I have joined the UK specific Feddi.uk and have found a lot to enjoy.

Let’s all help make this the place to be going forwards.

A bit, yeah. Joining Lemmy got me to finally write up a technical idea I'd been intending to post for the last year or so. Figured it'd be a good way to help seed one of the programming communities with some content.

Like other commenters have said: gotta help the community grow, and it won't grow if there's nothing interesting for people to read.

Lenmy feels very new to me and I'm glad to be away from the echo chamber that's Reddit. No more "who's cutting onions", "this is the way" and "sauce?". I'm done with it. Just done. Let's see what Lemmy had to offer. :)

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Same here! It helps that there's a lot less negativity here overall, similar to the earlier days of Reddit.

I'm trying to. I'm so used to lurking on Reddit that I forget to actually post here. Working on it, though.

I just joined today and will always stay a lurker but I've mainly noticed a difference in the type of comment I feel prompted to make. On Reddit I mostly gave advice to other people, because you or any opinions were never going to get noticed anywhere else anyway (unless you were lucky, I guess), the community here right now is a lot more casual and so are my replies.

As someone who experienced the digg migration, this is the magical place Reddit once was

I barely interacted in Reddit. But communities here makes me want to participate.

I think it helps that the community vibe is completely different here. On some reddit subs your posts would get automatically removed for the most arbitrary reasons, and that really discouraged people from participating. Here I haven't encountered anything like that yet and most of the people that do participate have been super cool too.

it always irked me on a new account when I couldn't comment in a subreddit because I didn't have enough comment karma. How am I supposed to get it if I'm not allowed to comment.

By posting in other subreddits that didn't have the requirement. I know it sucks but some subs legitimately need that or they'd be overloaded with bots, ban avoiders and trolls. Hope we don't get to that point in here but it's gonna be hard.

this sucks so much because you are commenting with the aim of getting karma, feels like a job

I know, there's not really a correct answer to that problem. That one "only" inconveniences new users, so it's the "least bad".

And on a side note, if you're not in a hurry to post you can find other cool communities in the meantime. To me for example, AskOuija has been the perfect balance of "karmafarming" and actually having fun.

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Looking for a brand new account with 10 years of commenting experience.

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We're surely in the golden age of Lemmy where the moderators are numerous and engaged enough to keep up with the bots, spammers, and hate mongers. It makes it a pleasant place to be, even if it seems to be overflowing with beans at the moment.

This is my first Lemmy post!

Have not made a post yet (busy with school and work) but I definitely comment more. Feels so much like web 1.0 forums with a splash of 2.0.

Just joined lemmy last night. (Now it's morning where I am from). Already commented 3-4 times. On reddit I used to comment once probably in a couple of weeks. It's probably because it's something very new and interesting. Also I am finding that people around seem nicer in a way maybe?

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Just created this account, let's see.

i feel like iam actually contributing to the community and helping to build this platform. in Reddit it doesn't feel like your making a difference

Same Literally never posted on Reddit in my decade of lurking. Lemmy is more welcoming and 'charming' IMO

I would have commented 4 times in last many years on reddit. On Lemmy (across instances) I have already posted over 40 in the last few weeks.

I’m trying to find the most popular communities so I can figure out what websites blogs I can post and generate content like I was used to when browsing subreddits

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Posting links or content? Not so much but I’ve definitely commented a lot more.

I'm trying to support the change. I joined 6/11, I stopped visiting the other site the same time.

I created a community that didn't exist yet here (in the fediverse) and am trying to post /comment more then I would normally. I wasn't a lurker over there but I am more engaged here.

Long live the new(ish) fediverse :)

Edit: I also removed my content and deleted my 12yo account on 7/1

I definitely did. A lot of the communities I'm interested in are even smaller here, so I can actually post without just falling off the 'new' feed. Plus I've been commenting more too, and it seems like I'm not the only one. Got some local restaurant recommendations lol

I comment more but post little. But I'm also on vacation so maybe I'll post more when I'm back home

Definitely, but I also maintain my own Lemmy instance and moderate !guildwars@lemmy.wtf. I also want Lemmy to succeed, so I am more inclined to engage than lurk, because the more activity, the more appealing Lemmy will look for newcomers, resulting in even more activity!

Same, I had to create own magazine for my niche hobby, and I've been posting in it to encourage activity, much more than I used to post.

No karma (on Kbin it's hidden inside the profile page, so same deal), healthier interactions, mods seem to have less tolerance to bullshit, and smaller userbase on instances in comparison with Reddit's huge userbase. It's a win-win.

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Yeah, definitely, idk I even started a community in !dota2@lemm.ee and created a user script to change all links on all websites to one's home instance. Definitely want this to succeed.

Definitely true at the moment as I'm trying to understand how this all works and where I want to be within it! I'll have to see if I go back to my lurking ways after the curiosity has died down, but so far I kinda like being able to pick communities not just for what they have, but also what the vibes are. I always hated negative stuff in r/gaming and other game subreddits, but I loved r/lowsodiumcyberpunk. I think beehaws gaming community seems so cool because of their emphasis on be(e)ing nice.

Seems like there's more reason to participate here. I may end up posting more, but several of my posts returned in error. Server issues, I assume, but frustrating when I'd have to rewrite everything.

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Gotta involve more :D make this place what reddit could never become.

I'm hoping to get more active as the platforms stabalize and I learn how everything works.

I'm pretty confident that things are going to take off soon! Loving the conversion on this platform so far, also enjoying the randomness.

It will be nice to have some more definition and focus for some topics (this is also probably me just being a noob at this) but I'm not really in a rush to get there as the information is available elsewhere, but the current atmosphere with Lemmy feels very unique and special

Much more so! Reddit just felt so vast it all just felt so damn futile haha

Absolutely, this feels less intimidating in a way. I've probably commented more here at the fediverse over the last few weeks then my whole time at Reddit

I feel this way too! I started out active on Reddit (like 11 years ago damn I’m old) but then it started to get so big I just didn’t feel comfortable posting anymore. It’s been an adjustment to actually participate here lol

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Yeah there was no real contributions worthwhile on Reddit on main subs. I was in a few smaller subs that would chat daily but nothing big.

I literally haven't posted anything on reddit since the blackout. All of my posting has been in the fediverse...

this place is just way nicer than reddit, don't see as many arguments over nothing here

Although it’s only been a couple of days, I feel more connected here. You don’t have conversations on Reddit anymore unless you’re a in a small subreddit. If you don’t comment on a Reddit post within the first hour, no one sees it. It’s not about karma, it’s about engagement and community.

Absolutely. It's too easy to get lost in large communities. Smaller communities let you get heard.

I got banned for ‘ban evading’, so I’m glad to post again.

I had 2 accounts (one for school/comp Sci, one for everything else) I insulted a mod in a larger sub and got banned on account A. Forgot I was banned from it and commented on the sub it with account B. This was around winter/spring when they were testing new ban tools and got full ban on current/new accounts I make so I’ve been loving Lemmy so far.

My account was suspended 3 times for "vote manipulation" because my partner, my daughter, and I were all on the same sub for our city and they'd upvote my comments sometimes without noticing it was me. It was never their accounts, always mine, and trying to contact reddit was useless. They had to basically stop upvoting anything in that sub because if they did, I might get suspended again or even banned.

How it can be 2023 and reddit can't figure out that people live together is beyond me.

Yep, this site has really chill vibes and it encourages posting

My posting activity has increased exponentially because I'm not instantly banned for literally anything I post. And I wasn't one to say needlessly hateful things but I guess a mod or admin didn't appreciate my irritation with them. This is more gooder.

I've posted 4 threads on Kbin which is, to my knowledge, more than I had posted on Reddit. So, yes indeed! The difference here is pretty much that you do not need to post at a specific time of the day to get any exposure at all in my experience.

Definitely, don't feel nearly as self conscious about posting with less activity